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It wasn’t about the fact that he was a patient and I was his nurse. It was about the fact that he was a man who slapped me out of rage, when I had no control over his plan of care at that point ( he was discharged from ER because his labs/tests came back clear, he didn’t want to leave because he had nowhere to go). It didn’t strike me with empathy because he didn’t feel well and wasn’t himself. It striked me with fear, because a man twice my size wanted to hurt me. I just wanted to share this. To get it off my chest.
1 hour ago, brownbook said:I am so sorry this happened. I, we, seemed to have assumed you did nothing. Fine if you just came here to vent. If you are having a hard time letting this incident go, go back to your supervisor and tell her you need to talk to someone.
"go back to your supervisor and tell her you need to talk to someone". -------------------------------
I am sure she knows to do this. Her situation I feel is helpful to a lot of nurses that may find themselves in a similar situation.
I’m glad you reported this. The police can subpoena his information. The hospital can give his name and address when this happens s if you wish to file charges.
While your biggest issue is that he was a man harming you as a women, there is an even bigger issue. A patient wanted to harm you. Outside of the hospital, it would be a large man hitting a woman. In a hospital it is more then that. It is a felony to assault a health care worker.
Even if this was was a little old lady. If an alert and oriented little old lady slapped me because she wanted to harm me, I would report it just the same as if a big man did. The only difference is that I would probably be a little more fearful of a large man then a little old lady. But in either case, assault is assault.
11 hours ago, Leader25 said:FELONY and next time kick him in the balls.
Leader, I love you right now.
@ally1991 - we don't practice for this so when it happens we don't know how we're going to react. It's not like CPR where muscle memory will take over. I think you did the right thing, and you took 10 to get yourself back together. Hang in there.
On 3/21/2019 at 8:17 AM, ally1991 said:It wasn’t about the fact that he was a patient and I was his nurse.
If he wasn't a patient and you weren't his nurse, I'm guessing he would already have been arraigned for assault and battery. So it absolutely *IS* about him being a patient.
For far too long, we've excused assault and battery by patients (and their families) because "they were upset" or "he's not himself." It's not right.
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I am so sorry this happened. I, we, seemed to have assumed you did nothing. Fine if you just came here to vent. If you are having a hard time letting this incident go, go back to your supervisor and tell her you need to talk to someone.