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Empathy? Patience? Good Attitude? I know all these traits are important, but what is the key trait to have as a nurse? I want to be a nurse and I just wonder if I have it in me.
You need solid personal boundaries to go with the compassion or you can find yourself overly involved with your patients. I don't specifically mean romantically (although that is one form over-involvement can take). I'm referring to identifying with them so much that you can't do what you need to do to them and for them because it will cause them pain or a negative reaction to you. Or worrying about their personal crises that extend beyond your care. Or letting yourself be manipulated by their emotional pressure.
You can also give of yourself without refilling the well and end up depleted.
And this is a common one--you can go to work looking for validation and emotional sustenance from your patients, then crash and burn when they don't provide it or don't offer enough appreciation.
Get your own emotional needs met away from the job. That's not to say it doesn't feel good when a patient or family members give you strokes for your excellent care. Only that your happiness shouldn't depend on it.
I'd also add a good sense of humor to the list.
This is actually pretty good.
That was extremely well done.
Out of curiosity regarding background, I could not identify the author
My first answer would be organizational skills and the ability to prioritize. Compassion would be a close second but if you prioritize or don't organize in the right way, your compassion could go to a dead patients family rather than the patient themselves.
I agree. My first pick is the ability to multi-task and good old fashion common sense also goes a long way.
leslie :-D
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that was good.
i would have added "thick skin", as well.:)
leslie