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How can i make my situation as gentle on me as possible? Today I received a verbal warming about my sick calls. I have a chronic condition that I live with. And at times it becomes unbearable where I am either hospitalized or at home on sick leave with a drs note sent to my Nurse Unit manager. And at time for some other medical reason which is legit as I have a drs note as proof that I am ill. I had to take off December 25 and 29 with a dr note for an upper respiratory tract infection in which my dr wrote I was not well enough to work...then again in August I was hospitalized with a drs note for my chronic condition which I had to take time off work which was two days however I was hospitalized for over a week. Then again in May my chronic condition flared up again and I was off for a day and a half. I don't understand why I am getting a cold shoulder for being legitimately ill. Please offer some advice...not sure how I feel about this
I know it sounds cold but Honestly...most employers are about the bottom line. They want to keep employees around who are like robots: show up on time, never get sick and don't complain. People are replaceable and rules are rules. You could be battling cancer and the truth is the show must go on in a health care setting.. It has nothing to do with your condition or whether your absences are validated.
I see your in Canada. Best thing would be to start a conversation with your employer and educate yourself on your options. Good luck!
A Drs note is not enough, you have to fill out fmla. Most likely you have an attendance policy in place. Where I work a Drs note is not important having fmla protection is the only way it's not counted against you. Real medical excuse or not people will be frustrated....especially when you call in on Christmas.
Rocknurse, MSN, APRN, NP
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It stands for Family Medical Leave Act