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Remember these sentences:
If you would like a towel and shower, go right ahead and remember to clean up after yourself, (smile).
You are welcome to any pillow you can locate yourself, stay out of restricted areas, please (smile)
No.
It's up to you if you want to wake her, or do you think YOU would like to stay asleep after being awake and in labor for 2 days.
How many people do you think YOUD like to have at your bedside all at once, while in labor.
No.
I am you sure understand and will agree that my primary responsibility is to this mom and baby, would you have it any
other way?
I am just a tired as you are but need all my facilities and attention so get your own pillow Buddy, and don't ask me again. (smile)
And finally, No.
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Geez...are they really that STUPID, or do they just not freakin' care?
That sucks that you don't have security...you can't even use the "comply with my rules or you'll be escorted out," line...not to mention what might happen when "people" (once again I use the term loosely) like this get up in your face and go crazy.
Where'd that bottle of chloroform and the ropes go?
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Canoehead:
Into each nurses life some rain must fall. I know the East Coast is having a drought, but to have a hurricaine night. Yikes!!
Chalk up another story for the book... Have a candy bar on me. Sure you handled the situation with great tact. HOW many Tylenol needed for the TMJ pain due to grinding your teeth. . Wishing you an easier time tonight.
((((((HUGS)))))))
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NEVER say never. My suggestion when I chaired a visiting hour committee was the 6th Thursday of the 13th month of the year but only during leap year. That was when they could come out of the wood work. And they could call during the 25th hour but that was any day of the week.
Sad thing. I was dead serious when I said it at that meeting. That was how bad a week I had with numerous families on my unit.
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Tough night. You have my sympathy. Vistors and significant others such as you have described are the reason I believe all RN's should be armed. I think packing a 9mm or 40 S&W sidearm would do a great deal inb encouraging courtesy from visitors. And it would solve the security problem. I wonder if the ANA would champion such a proposal? Gary:cool:
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Holy crap. You were SO much more patient than I would have been!! Congrats on being such a professional and juggling all those clueless people and still managing to do your job (altho they apparently thought taking care of THEM was your job!)