How well does misogyny work out in your facility?

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An article passed my way last night written by an East Carolina University student arguing about the availability of birth control in the student health center.

http://theeastcarolinian.com/?p=1138

What was really disturbing wasn't thebile spewed towards women taking responsibility for themselves (advocate for birth control or not, I'm not here to argue that one). It was that this young man is a senior in the nursing program.

The article was slightly sanitized on the site, but it was captured for all eternity on the internet. I suggest reading it (if you can stomach it!).

http://rebekahtodd.tumblr.com/post/10814214583/east-carolinian-releases-outrageous-column-on-birth

That's right! This young man is going to be entering our ranks in a few short months!

Someone who believes that a woman who engages in sex is actually a prostitute.

Someone who wants to be in an industry around a large majority of coworkers that will be offended when he insults them for having a ******** (but he uses the real word).

Someone who wants to be a nurse, but doesn't know that his case of the sniffles is going to be treated with fluids and rest.

If you were a preceptor and one of your students acted like this, what would you think about their ability to provide adequate and equal care? Would a nursing instructor think he was sleeping in his nursing ethics class and not paying attention to the section on triage in his textbook? More importantly, if young Ben Cochran passes his NCLEX and is licensed, what is a nursing manager going to think when she googles his name before the interview and this is the number one hit?

If he becomes a nurse someday, I'm going to be ashamed on behalf of my gender. I apologize in advance to all of you ladies.

ETA: I forgot to mention that I don't believe the apology in the editorial. His Facebook page shows him gloating about receiving all of the attention and hate mail.

Specializes in Med/Surg.

I've seen several comments in different places saying he has now "privatized" his Facebook profile....not sure where they're getting that? I can still see it in all it's full "glory."

I need to stop reading anything associated with this, but one link leads to another, leads to another....can't help myself. Argh.

Specializes in LTC, Memory loss, PDN.

No reason to get worked up. There's a self consumed idiot on every corner. This is the guy in the ER who cannot understand why he may have to wait to get his finger steri stripped, because he knows he's bleeding to death. The one thing that would be upsetting is if we were paying his way.

Specializes in Cardiac.

He doesn't seem like he could be a nursing student... surely a nursing student wouldn't be so ignorant to legit medical situations and the role of a general practitioner.

Specializes in Emergency Department.

I've been seeing on some blogs covering this story a disturbing trend. While the misogyny is rampant, there seem to be some that are taking things too far.

The proper response isn't going after men in nursing or even men. Nobody here is doing that and I think it is because we know better.

I read one comment where someone said this proves that men don't belong in nursing because they get off seeing naked women and have been known to drug and rape their patients. I'm also seeing people mocking Ben with sexist comments such as saying he came down with a bad "manflu."

I don't see how misandry combats misogyny. This guy is slime, but it doesn't help the feminist image in society when some blogs are being just as bigoted.

Specializes in Med/Surg.
He doesn't seem like he could be a nursing student... surely a nursing student wouldn't be so ignorant to legit medical situations and the role of a general practitioner.

That's the scary part, though....he IS a nursing student.

I've been seeing on some blogs covering this story a disturbing trend. While the misogyny is rampant, there seem to be some that are taking things too far.

The proper response isn't going after men in nursing or even men. Nobody here is doing that and I think it is because we know better.

I read one comment where someone said this proves that men don't belong in nursing because they get off seeing naked women and have been known to drug and rape their patients. I'm also seeing people mocking Ben with sexist comments such as saying he came down with a bad "manflu."

I don't see how misandry combats misogyny. This guy is slime, but it doesn't help the feminist image in society when some blogs are being just as bigoted.

I agree with you. On the blogs and comments that I've come across, I haven't seen this trend so much (luckily). I've seen a lot of men just as angered/disgusted by his article (again, luckily!). I've seen comments addressing the fact that he's there with a cold, but they weren't specifically talking about it being a "man flu," just that he wouldn't really be able to be treated for his virus. I hope the trend you're talking about doesn't become too widespread, because you're right....that doesn't help anybody's case.

Specializes in surgical, neuro, education.

As a clinical nurse instructor for 8 years, and a nurse for over 22, this 'student' will not survive the nursing home rotation--let alone acute care. It sounds like he has read too many medical terminology books in his spare time (doesn't sound like he gets many dates) The attention he is getting from this rant is way over estimated. If we all get 15 min of fame his 15 is over. Something to be real proud of when you are old and having your TURP done for his enlarged prostate.

As a mother I placed a lot of importance in raising my boys to be respectful of women and I have been very proud of how they turned out. Sad his mother can't experience that same bit of pride.

Specializes in Oncology; medical specialty website.

The article left me agog. But why in the world, after reading such offensive meanderings would anyone go to his Facebook site to read even more? If the article was offensive, what do people expect is going to be on his Facebook page. Puppies, unicorns and rainbows?

The best thing that could happen for this "young man" is that he get as little attention as possible, not multiple Facebook hits.

Specializes in Gerontological, cardiac, med-surg, peds.

Not excusing this behavior, but methinks he is an immature young twenty-year-old who has made a very bad mistake. Unfortunately, I have seen a fair number of students just like him in my career as a nursing instructor. He will learn from this mistake, but it will be a very costly and painful process. His brashfulness and bravado is just a cover - I do believe he is feeling extreme remorse right now. "Experience is a good teacher, but its dues are heavy." Poor judgment - yes. Malice and poor character - I don't think so. I also believe he will have a very hard time finding a job upon graduation. It is also a shame that he has so poorly represented his College of Nursing - a wonderful learning institution that has produced many outstanding stellar nurses.

Specializes in FNP.

You know who I really feel sorry for here, is the faculty at East Carolina. How embarrassing that this kid is now representative of their student body. He seemingly can not compose a sentence in English that isn't rife with grammatical and punctuation errors. The style and format were even more cringe worthy than the content. This is what I mean by raising the bar in Nursing people, lol. The kid is barely literate, and that is reason enough to keep him out of Nursing, his ethics and empathy (or lack thereof) not withstanding.

Wow! How vile and crude. What a fricken idiot. We'll see how anti birth control he is when some girl who will obviously be hallucinating at the time, let's him have sex with her. Ugh. I think I lost a few brain cells processing that idiot's thoughts.

Either way, oh let him graduate and get his first floor job. He will be crucified.

I don't know how similar this is as i didn't even read the article............but what about all of the pharmacist who refuse to dispense plan B or other similiar type things. my guess is this student will fit right in in some locations. not everywhere in this country is a liberal or modern thinking US city....

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