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...how you would like your end of life care to be handled? After today I know I'd want care to be withdrawn if I ever got to a point that my pts were at today (terminal illness/stroke/vent/unresponsive). It just seems tortuous to put someone through all of that.
And NO MORE FALLING VICTIM to unethical healthcare providers!!!!!!
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After seeing several people with end stage COPD be put on BiPap because they didn't want a vent only to have their CO2 come down and they again become very aware of how suffocated they feel, I wouldn't want that either. If a CO2 retainer is dying and their CO2 is sky high, for pete's sake be merciful and leave off the BiPap! As their CO2 rises, they can just gradually go to sleep.
I did actually look into the possibility of having DNR tattoo'd onto my chest! Turns out, it won't fly, not even with a tattoo'd Dr.'s order with tattoo'd signature and date. Pity.
My mother was an RN and she used to freak out the Dr.'s in the years prior to advanced directives; she'd wag her finger at them, saying, "And if God decides to take me, you WILL NOT ARGUE WITH HIM!"
I want my pain managed! Not a little bit, not PRN...I want drugs pushed around the clock. If I can handle the drugs, I want them. Whether I have a year of my life left or a week, I do not want to be suffering with pain.
I also don't want to be lectured about the "scary" side effects of opiates. Do not recommend meditation, the use of heat/cold, stretching, praying, eating, distraction or whatever alternative pain relieving ideas are out there. If I'm about to kick the bucket, I want drugs and the drugs which work. I'm pretty sure at that point in my life I won't give a rat's rump about tolerance, dependence or *gasp* addiction. I only want to be comfortable. If I am pain free and as high as a kite, so what?
I have a huge fear of being in pain because I have seen so many patients who have been under medicated.
It's so wrong.
Esme12, ASN, BSN, RN
20,908 Posts
ABSOLUTELY!