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my cots are sort of behind me / to the side of me if that makes sense. Either way they can see what i am charting of they sit on the edge and look closely. If they elect to lie down instead of sit in one of my chairs i encourage them to look at their homework, read a book, color, close their eyes and nap while they wait. I can't really move my office around too much.
My cot is sort of diagonally behind me as well, and yes, it creeps me out. I have another one that is in what I would call a half-room, that is more private and I use for those kids who are definitely sick. But the ones I am keeping my eye on go behind me. If they sit up and start making commentary or asking questions, guess where they go? Back to class.
But honestly, even when laying down they can see my every move. But I only have a few options with my office and I can't have my back to a door or window.
The first school I worked at (for 4 years) had the end of two cots towards my desk and YES it was unnerving when the kids would just sit and stare at me. Whether they were waiting their 10 minutes post crackers for nausea or waiting to be picked up.
I put a word match game to play so that would keep them occupied mostly. I had the obscure medical terms on one side of a double cabinet and the laymen's term on the other side. Kids could guess which ones went together. ie: epitaxis (nosebleed), idiopathic (no known cause), caries (cavities), and the most popular was always sphenopalatine ganglioneuralgia (ice cream headache)
My cots are off to my left, but I know what you mean. Occasionally, there will be a student that decides to sit on the end of the cot and just stare at me! It is so unnerving and makes me very uncomfortable. I don't want to get in the habit of giving coloring pages or activities, because I don't want them to start coming to the clinic for "fun time". I just position myself to face away from them and try to ignore the uneasy feeling, but it's HARD!
The first school I worked at (for 4 years) had the end of two cots towards my desk and YES it was unnerving when the kids would just sit and stare at me. Whether they were waiting their 10 minutes post crackers for nausea or waiting to be picked up.I put a word match game to play so that would keep them occupied mostly. I had the obscure medical terms on one side of a double cabinet and the laymen's term on the other side. Kids could guess which ones went together. ie: epitaxis (nosebleed), idiopathic (no known cause), caries (cavities), and the most popular was always sphenopalatine ganglioneuralgia (ice cream headache)
And.
Now I've learned something.
I don't want to get in the habit of giving coloring pages or activities, because I don't want them to start coming to the clinic for "fun time".
It's a well known fact in my office that the coloring books and crayons are only broken out if you are headed home or have to wait in my office for some reason. I've been told by the kids who are just there to hold ice for a few minutes that they think that policy is unfair - they want to sit and color too. I am sure you all know how much that influenced me to consider changing it.
BunnyBunnyBSNRN, ASN, BSN
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The way my office is set up, the cot is behind me. When I can, I will ask kiddo waiting for pick up if they want to lay down - occasionally, I get a kid that will, instead of laying down, just sit there on the cot. It creeps me out a little because I feel like they are staring at me. Anyone else have this issue/get creeped out by kids?