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Just found out my cousin, jumped off a bridge overlooking the major expressway here. As you could imagine, this forced the closure of the entire expressway for hours. His name was Ken. Had a TBI, and struggled with depression, as do I, which was a shared hurt. His father, who's across the country, refuses to come claim the body. Some people still refuse to care, even after death, I guess.
RIP, dear Ken. I know the pain is gone now, my friend.
I am so sorry. You and the rest of his family and friends are in my prayers, even Ken's father. My father killed himself when I was a child and the pain and unanswerable questions last for years - even a lifetime, sometimes.
Specializes in Med-Surg/Peds/O.R./Legal/cardiology.
My prayers are with both of you, too. Sometimes there are just no words that can ease the pain of situations like these. I hope both of you can rest in the knowledge that they are now at peace.
Condolences to you and your family. Your uncle may be in denial here, and certainly shock which I am sure is afflicting you as well. I am glad you reached out to us here at allnurses. Remember that we are here for you in good and bad times.
You shared an affliction with depression with your cousin but you are able to carry on and seek the help that you need and please do this!! Don't ever think of giving up yourself!!
I know there is a huge range of feelings when someone dies, and even more when it is a suicide, and then you got the guilts and "where were the signs", "Why didn't I see them" questions and it is OK to feel the way you do and very normal. Hang in there, and keep us updated on how you are- WE CARE!
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I am so sorry. You and the rest of his family and friends are in my prayers, even Ken's father. My father killed himself when I was a child and the pain and unanswerable questions last for years - even a lifetime, sometimes.