Okay ya'll, tell me what you think about this. One male nurse at LTC facility, involved with 4 female staff members who all work the same shift. The supervisor (RN), the LPN that assists him on his hall, and 2 CNA's. Usually, I'm pretty much one to think "to each his own". However, I think think this situation is going to end up with someone hurt. :chair: So many crazy things happen at this place, I don't even know why it fazes me. But his relationship with the CNA that works my hall is screwing up her job performance. She is so worried about what he's doing and who he's interacting with she can't get her job done. She left today without getting any vital signs or charting input/output. She's frequently talking about how she's gonna beat the supervisor's a@# if she catches them together. She knows about him and the supervisor, but none of the others know about each other (if that makes any sense). I don't know what this man has that is so good. But to get to the point, it's like going to a soap opera every weekend instead of work. I still love my job; it's kind of interesting to watch this all unfold. There is no professionalism anywhere. Today was one of those days where I just didn't feel like a nurse at all. It amazes me what people are willing to sacrifice in order to get their groove on. I can't tell the supervisor about this CNA's job peformance because he's seeing her too. I think this matter is going to have to go to the administrator, it's too much for me to handle anymore:confused: . Any advice?
No matter how obliged a man feels to do what a feline demands, the law of nature prevails.
I urge you to reread this sentence and beg you to reconsider your choice of words. It seems to give the impression that you're jumping species, which veers this thread off into a Very Bad Place. :uhoh21:
I urge you to reread this sentence and beg you to reconsider your choice of words. It seems to give the impression that you're jumping species, which veers this thread off into a Very Bad Place. :uhoh21:
I hope it doesn't veer this thread off as i neither have the intention of starting a gender war nor hijacking the thread.
If it'll make everyone happy for me to re-phrase the sentence in a simplified english language, I'm more than willing to do so. :)
She did get the boob job free from a plastic surgeon she was dating!
I personally think it will take a wild cat to do that. Again my humble opinion.
This guy makes my skin crawl! He really doesn't have to work for a living because he owns his own businesses and owns lots of property. Drives a nice car. But I do think his sole purpose of nursing is to find women. That's so sad! His residents roll around the facility in their wheelchairs smelly and wet, acting up. And lo and behold! Don't ask the supervisor because she ain't gonna say nothing. I'm just lucky I can handle my own people, pretty much without the help of my supervisor. I do think this situation will eventually die, because everybody hates this woman. Maybe I've just been sheltered all my life, but this is just a nursing home. When I finish school the second go round and start working in a hospital, is it going to be worse? What happened to morality and just being a good nurse? Makes me really wonder is I'm prepared to handle some of the things nursing has to offer...thanx for reading...
I find it hard to believe that there is any more, or less, philandering going on in a nursing environment than there is in general in the country.
That has never been a problem in my 'neck of the wood'.
I believe it takes two to tango. You cannot have a Romeo without the Juliet.
A straight man in a woman's world, what do you expect?
What do I expect? Ummm...well, a little professionalism #1...and #2 a nurse who does their job instead of coworkers, or at least prioritizes with the JOB.....whatever their sex. uhoh3:
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What do I expect? Ummm...well, a little professionalism #1...and #2 a nurse who does their job instead of coworkers, or at least prioritizes with the JOB.....whatever their sex. uhoh3:
What do I expect? Ummm...well, a little professionalism #1...and #2 a nurse who does their job instead of coworkers, or at least prioritizes with the JOB.....whatever their sex. uhoh3:
Whatever i do in my spare time is my business. If i decide to 'bonk' the director of nursing out of work, who is to raise an eyebrow? As long as i do my job effectively. That is my point.
I don't accept relationships affecting patient's care, but the moment they are out of wards/unit
Whatever i do in my spare time is my business. If i decide to 'bonk' the director of nursing out of work, who is to raise an eyebrow? As long as i do my job effectively. That is my point.
I don't accept relationships affecting patient's care, but the moment they are out of wards/unit
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No matter how obliged a man feels to do what a feline demands, the law of nature prevails.
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personally think it will take a wild cat to do that. Again my humble opinion.
The supervisor (RN), the LPN that assists him on his hall, and 2 CNA's. Usually, I'm pretty much one to think "to each his own". However, I think think this situation is going to end up with someone hurt. :chair: So many crazy things happen at this place, I don't even know why it fazes me. But his relationship with the CNA that works my hall is screwing up her job performance. She is so worried about what he's doing and who he's interacting with she can't get her job done. She left today without getting any vital signs or charting input/output. She's frequently talking about how she's gonna beat the supervisor's a@# if she catches them together. She knows about him and the supervisor, but none of the others know about each other (if that makes any sense). I don't know what this man has that is so good. But to get to the point, it's like going to a soap opera every weekend instead of work. I still love my job; it's kind of interesting to watch this all unfold. There is no professionalism anywhere. Today was one of those days where I just didn't feel like a nurse at all. It amazes me what people are willing to sacrifice in order to get their groove on. I can't tell the supervisor about this CNA's job peformance because he's seeing her too. I think this matter is going to have to go to the administrator, it's too much for me to handle anymore:confused: . Any advice?
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I urge you to reread this sentence and beg you to reconsider your choice of words. It seems to give the impression that you're jumping species, which veers this thread off into a Very Bad Place. :uhoh21: