When did you find your calling?

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Hi all!

Everyone here is so welcoming and informative. I apologize in advance if there are millions of threads about this but I'd love to hear everyone's story. A little about myself (which will lead to my questions I promise!) I'm 27 with a Bachelors and currently completing a few pre-requisite classes to apply for accelerated BSN programs here in the Dallas area (UT Arlington is my first choice, Texas Tech is my second which is where my first B.A is from). I won't be eligible until Spring of 2017 to begin Nursing school. True to form I have researched, weighed all of my options, compiled many thoughts and such, along with hours of scouring this website. I'm in a fortunate position that I will be able to dedicate my time to Nursing school when the time comes for clinical and such. I feel confident in the fact that the timing is everything and the time is now to do this in my life. Of course, I am a little scared to take the plunge. I know that the risk is worth the reward but still in the back of my mind there is a little worry. Nursing has been something I have toyed with for about a year and a half now and I think I'm finally ready. My job is completely unfulfilling, unsatisfying, unchallenging, typical cold, dull, dry Corporate America. I have realized this is not what I want to spend the rest of my life doing. Staring at spreadsheets, worrying if I'll have a job given oil prices, and everything in between.

Cardiology, EP, and Anesthesia have always interested me. My dad had his first heart attack at the age of thirty and has had 7 since. I'm his caretaker and I almost lost him this January. There were so many nurses, doctors, NP's, PA's, CNA's, techs, and more that I remember so poignantly during his stay's in the hospital (he's been in and out about every three months for over a year). I feel compelled to give back to those who have been in not only my dad's shoes but mine as well.

However, I just don't see myself in a bedside nursing role. Being in a clinical setting, a cath lab, EP lab, surgery role speaks more to me than bedside. Even working for a medical device company, like Medtronic as someone who interrogates ICD's. I do know that I want to further my education eventually, like a CNS, NP, or CRNA (I know this requires at least a year of acute care). So my question: when did you know you were where you were meant to be? Did you stumble upon it? Was it what you always dreamed of? Just curious, I know I will find my niche as I already have strong interests.

Thanks y'all!

Specializes in Surgery, ICU.

I have never had a "this is my calling" moment. I powered through nursing school, got into the speciality I wanted as a new grad, but I'm still waiting.

I never felt a real calling, except that science has always interested me, I like helping people, and I had experience with the medical system after one of my children was ill for several years. Oh, and I was looking for a way to support myself because at the time my marriage was not doing well. ;-)

I did not want to do peds. I was very against it for many of the common reasons other nurses don't want to work peds. But after several job interviews that didn't lead to anything I was hired on the spot at my current peds job. Now I really love peds and can't see myself working with adults. It's so specialized.

Good luck to you. My advice is to keep an open mind and grow where you are planted. At least until you get enough experience to seek a job somewhere else. ;-)

Specializes in Pediatric Critical Care.

I did not want to do peds. I was very against it for many of the common reasons other nurses don't want to work peds.

Im not trying to invalidate this or anything, just have a question - what are the common reasons that are cited for not wanting to work peds?

I guess as a peds nurse myself, I dont have as much experience with people who dont want to do it :p

Specializes in Pediatric Critical Care.

This is how I came to be a nurse:

When I got to college for freshman orientation, they showed me my dorm, the library, the dining hall, etc. Then they said I needed to registered for classes and asked what I would like to major in. And I had NO idea. Nobody had really asked me that before and I hadn't even thought about it, to be honest. So I looked at the list and they mentioned that if I had any interest in considering nursing, then I should try that first because if changed to nursing later it would set me way back due to none of the classes being the same for other majors.

So I said "ok I guess I'll try nursing first."

After that, I frequently questioned whether or not I really wanted to do nursing but quitting felt like throwing away all the semesters that I had already paid for and done. So I kind of just....stayed. Then I graduated. Now I'm a nurse.

It worked out, though. I like nursing a whole lot better than I liked nursing school, thats for certain.

Specializes in geriatrics.

I have many interests, nursing included, but I don't consider nursing a calling. It's important to me to provide quality care, however.....nursing is also my job. A means to an end, in order for me to spend my off time pursuing other interests.

My answer for not wanting to work peds? I enjoy adult and seniors health. Peds is definitely not for me. I have only so much patience for children. I'd last one week.

Specializes in HH, Peds, Rehab, Clinical.

I've always wondered, who does this calling? Who's voice should I be listening for?

Specializes in geriatrics.

Maybe George Burns, the voice of God?

Specializes in critical care.
I've always wondered, who does this calling? Who's voice should I be listening for?

Morgan Freeman

Specializes in Med-Surg, OB, ICU, Public Health Nursing.

My mother told me that I was three when I first started saying that I wanted to be a nurse. My aunt was a nurse and my mother worshiped her sister the nurse. My favorite halloween costume was when I was 8. My aunt , the nurse made me a white dress, cap and cape. I would watch nurses walking down the street and I believed they were just magical people. I read the Cherry Ames books. I never changed my mind and I had 40 incredible years working as a nurse. There were times when I was close to burn out. However, I discovered another great thing about our profession. I could move on to a different nursing job and learn a whole new nursing specialty. I was never bored.

Specializes in Behavioral Health.
Morgan Freeman

If he called, I would answer.

But since he hasn't, I just kind of fumbled through life. I was pretty sure I wanted to work with brains, and did a progression of experimental psychology, then neuroscience, then clinical psychology, then psych nursing, and now psych NP... to be honest I'd be pretty pissed if I got called to something else now, after spending all this money on these pieces of paper that (in theory) hang on my wall.

This is still my story and I'm sticking to it.

I was 28.

:lol2:

Specializes in ICU.
Im not trying to invalidate this or anything, just have a question - what are the common reasons that are cited for not wanting to work peds?

I guess as a peds nurse myself, I dont have as much experience with people who dont want to do it :p

I think most people talk about the parents. I have come to believe that parents couldn't possibly be as annoying as some siblings/children/great uncles/boyfriends I have run into, so I don't believe they are more annoying than any other type of visitor.

In fact, I have had a lot of extremely annoying parents loitering around 24/7 in my ADULT floor lately. The 55yo drug OD with the 75yo overly demanding mother, the 60yo mom of a 30yo patient who was asking me for more toilet paper for the PATIENT's toilet, whom she was unapologetically using despite being repeatedly directed to the visitor toilet, with the result of nurses continually walking in on her taking a dump... oy vey.

I just don't want to go into peds for all the extra math, personally.

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