When did you find your calling?

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Hi all!

Everyone here is so welcoming and informative. I apologize in advance if there are millions of threads about this but I'd love to hear everyone's story. A little about myself (which will lead to my questions I promise!) I'm 27 with a Bachelors and currently completing a few pre-requisite classes to apply for accelerated BSN programs here in the Dallas area (UT Arlington is my first choice, Texas Tech is my second which is where my first B.A is from). I won't be eligible until Spring of 2017 to begin Nursing school. True to form I have researched, weighed all of my options, compiled many thoughts and such, along with hours of scouring this website. I'm in a fortunate position that I will be able to dedicate my time to Nursing school when the time comes for clinical and such. I feel confident in the fact that the timing is everything and the time is now to do this in my life. Of course, I am a little scared to take the plunge. I know that the risk is worth the reward but still in the back of my mind there is a little worry. Nursing has been something I have toyed with for about a year and a half now and I think I'm finally ready. My job is completely unfulfilling, unsatisfying, unchallenging, typical cold, dull, dry Corporate America. I have realized this is not what I want to spend the rest of my life doing. Staring at spreadsheets, worrying if I'll have a job given oil prices, and everything in between.

Cardiology, EP, and Anesthesia have always interested me. My dad had his first heart attack at the age of thirty and has had 7 since. I'm his caretaker and I almost lost him this January. There were so many nurses, doctors, NP's, PA's, CNA's, techs, and more that I remember so poignantly during his stay's in the hospital (he's been in and out about every three months for over a year). I feel compelled to give back to those who have been in not only my dad's shoes but mine as well.

However, I just don't see myself in a bedside nursing role. Being in a clinical setting, a cath lab, EP lab, surgery role speaks more to me than bedside. Even working for a medical device company, like Medtronic as someone who interrogates ICD's. I do know that I want to further my education eventually, like a CNS, NP, or CRNA (I know this requires at least a year of acute care). So my question: when did you know you were where you were meant to be? Did you stumble upon it? Was it what you always dreamed of? Just curious, I know I will find my niche as I already have strong interests.

Thanks y'all!

Specializes in OB-Gyn/Primary Care/Ambulatory Leadership.
Morgan Freeman

Or Alanis Morrisette, depending on which film "G-d" you prefer.

Specializes in OB-Gyn/Primary Care/Ambulatory Leadership.

The OP is gone. You meanies scared her away!😉

Specializes in Case mgmt., rehab, (CRRN), LTC & psych.

There was never any transcendental calling for me.

I entered nursing for practical reasons such as career mobility, educational advancement, transferable skills, and a steady middle income. For me, nursing will always be a means to an end. Nothing more, nothing less...

Specializes in OB-Gyn/Primary Care/Ambulatory Leadership.

My "calling" was actually to be a lactation consultant. At the time, the fastest way for me to become a lactation consultant was to complete nursing school. When I made the decision to go to nursing school, I didn't actually have any interest in being a nurse. Fast forward 12 years....while I have my lactation certification, I haven't used it in years, and I enjoy being a nurse!

I find it interesting how so many new nurses are second-career folks from corporate America who are used to working in an environment with hours that many bedside nurses would LOVE to have.

Grass isn't always greener on the other side, OP.

I am one of these, although no longer considered new. I loved my hours, but didn't especially like the other part of the job. I sat in a cubicle all day working at a computer. I made good money, but I wasn't make the world a better place. I was just making my company wealthier. I only got 2 weeks off per year. As a nurse I work horribly long shifts that make my body hurt . . but if I schedule myself right I can get many days off between a cluster of shifts. I can extend a 2 week vacation into 3.5 weeks with creative scheduling. I was a salaried employee so I would sometimes have to take work home, or come into work to make deadlines. I remember working late one Christmas Eve so I could get a project done by the first of the year. As an RN I can clock out, go home and not look back. I am off duty until I clock back in.

The reference to a "calling" is a religious one: who, if not a Divine Creator, is the 'calling' coming from, then?

It's interesting to note that lawyers, engineers, doctors, pharmacists, carpenters DO NOT discuss their "calling" to those professions....they simply figured they'd be good at it and wanted to work in that field. Or any other reason, beside a religious "calling" to the post.

Nurses, however, still seem to evoke this overly-dramatized, over-glamorized image of a nun being "called" to attend to the sick and dying on a battlefield.....or the image of said Creature of Comfort offering care to a newborn. That's nice imagery...but not the reality of today's PROFESSIONAL nurse.

We are not martyrs. We expect fair compensation for the work we perform, and reasonable respect as a human being in a healthcare profession. I do not volunteer as a nurse, I WORK as one.

Sometimes a person can have a calling of the heart or conscious that has nothing to do with spirituality. I feel called to volunteer, for example, to help people in need. It has nothing to do with religion. It has to do with something I feel in my heart that I need to do.

Specializes in Behavioral Health.
OP, snarky humor aside here, there is some good advice. No job or career is a panacea. Asking generally when others discovered their calling, begs the question (that they did have a calling to nursing).

I just wanted to thank you for using "begs the question" correctly.

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