My nursing preceptor gave me an article on professionalism from a nursing periodical yesterday on our previous shift (hint, hint) and added that it's something everybody should read. Ok, so I read it:
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"7 tips to improve your professional etiquette." - OR Nurse, March 2010
1. Introduce yourself. You won't feel awkward during conversations if you're already ready to introduce yourself. Don't just stand next to someone waiting to be introduced. Be ready to introduce colleagues as well. (How can these last 2 sentences co-exist?)
2. Have a confident handshake. Take into consideration cultural preferences and sensitivities. (Huh? They're in your house. When in Rome...)
3. Keep conversations on track. Stay away from controversial topics. (Why are you assuming I'm naturally tactless, an empty bucket needing to be filled with your "tips" ?)
4. Watch your body language. Stand tall, with your shoulders back. Don't put your hands on your hips or cross them over your chest. (Then what am I supposed to do with them?)
5. Cultivate a positive work environment. Be polite and courteous to your colleagues. (So THAT'S what I've been forgetting to do!)
6. Dress for success. (Especially in nursing, when you may get blood, vomit or feces on your clothing at any given moment with the patient.)
7. Present a positive, professional image. (Don't use the term to define the term.)
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The thing is, what my preceptor calls "professionalism" is what I call phony, glib, and an overall a disrespect to my presence. If you honestly feel pleased to meet somebody, then people wouldn't be writing "tips" on how to overcompensate.
Does this article, summarized by these tips, send the right message of what "professionalism" is? Are they missing the point, or am I missing the point??