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Human nature is to complain rather than to compliment. That is why you will find the negative posts tend to outweigh the positive posts. Plus, coming here to a semi-anonymous message board and venting to those who walk the walk helps- nurses understand nursing, something that family members (unless they are in the healthcare field) don't get.
Am I happy with my choice to be an RN? Most days. Have there been days where it was absolutely miserable? Yep, like when the little 2 month old died in our trauma OR and someone had to sit in the OR with her tiny little body until the coroner arrived. When the 17 year old car accident victim (totally not the fault of anyone in the same vehicle as hers) herniated before she made it to the OR for her crani (and probably before she actually made it into the ER), then came back 2 days later as an organ donor. But in the end, it can be a satisfying career.
I LOVE my job! Unfortunately, we got a new manager that I do not have a great "fit" with. Getting ready to move into a more advanced role. I have been an ortho nurse for 6 years and am leaving because new manager is making every anxious and miserable plus, an opportunity has presented itself to me that is a fabulous opportunity that I can't pass up (use the MSN I earned last year)
I like this career for the coworkers, the stories, the crazy stuff you do and learn, and the lifestyle I can live because of it (e.g., four days off per week, great salary, etc.). It is not the warm and fuzzy job I had imagined, and unfortunately I don't usually feel that what I do every day makes a huge difference; I'm more just holding the line as a bedside nurse. There is purpose in that, but I had to adjust my expectations a lot to be satisfied with the effect of my work. It is minimal sometimes.
I'm happy with my career and it's been very good to me.
It's easy to be impactful everyday and make something cool happen. I've had many opportunities for growth and influence with much encouragement.
It is hard work and the first years were the roughest but after the first 5 I've been treated well by every employer. With rare exception on the worst day I have not regretted it and am glad for my career. It's truly something I'd be happy to volunteer doing on a part time basis if I didn't need to generate an income.
anjoku13
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I've seen so many posts about nurses hating their jobs, and this is kind of scaring me from the career, but I still want to go through with it. But are you happy with your choice to become an RN why or why not?