My nurse manager tells us tidbits about other workers. Uses general and vague 'they said...' statements when communicating areas she seems to think an individual needs to improve upon.
For instance; she asked me to come into her office when I got a chance to. When I did, she proceeded to say 'they' said (some of my coworkers, she won't specify who) said you seem to lack confidence. Then she didn't offer much in the way of suggestions. It was very vague and very insulting to me.
Others who are new to our department have stated she has done the same to them too. Only, they have either quit or gotten fired by now.
Should I go above her head to HR and let them know about her ineffective ***** management style? Or just ignore her? I don't see myself being able to reason with someone who acts like this.
Also please note: I work in an ER where the ft medical director called the nurses monkeys before I started there. He still has his job, but is known to **** and complain about nurses on a whim. He gets emotionally worked up easily...