Quote from mrsboots87
This is coming from a woman, so it may not be the answer you were looking for. But, honestly, just don't try so hard at work. Work should not be your primary dating pool. The best way to find an SO would be to just go out with friends and be yourself and relax. It is a major turn off when I can tell a man is just looking for a girlfriend. It's a good desire to want an SO and start that phase of your life, but know it will come in time. If it seems like you just want a gf then you will be less likely to find one because it comes off as desperate. Focus on making new friends. With new friends come the ability to meet new girls in a friendly way and see where it goes. GL
@ Mrsboots, no no no, your response is welcomed!
I have been out with a few friends at bars. But the quality of females you meet at bars, or heck, night clubs, are not the kind of mate you want to be with for the rest of your life. Trust me, I have been in a relationship that I have established from a night club "fling" and the relationship only lasted ONE week. LOL!
I am still "young," at least that's what my parents tell me, in my early 30's. Yet, my younger sister got married four years ago, and gave birth to her son last year.
Another former friend of mine (since he moved out of town for his fellowship, lost contact with him) also got married two years ago.
I feel like I'm behind that of other siblings, relatives and friends.