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My recent experience with a hostile and demanding patient got me thinking of ways I can improve the way I handle these patients in the future.
This patient was a homeless man with a history of chronic pain, uncontrolled diabetes, COPD, and MRSA, currently being worked up due to his presentation in the emergency room with complaints of dyspnea and abdominal pain. The man is getting every diagnostic under the sun, and is on scheduled and PRN pain medications.
He is rude and demanding. Constantly on his call light and will come seek out his nurse to demand pain meds. Accuses staff of lying to him and withholding his pain meds. Doesn't even know what medications he is on for other conditions, but thinks he knows what time he gets pain meds. When he thinks nobody's looking, the man has a RR of 8, but as soon as he knows someone is looking, of course it's 16. So, we try to explain to him that the PRN medication is not *scheduled* for every two hours, but that two hours is the minimum amount of time we have to wait between doses, and that if he is too sedated, we cannot give him more. He insists that he is supposed to get the pain med every two hours. In the meantime, he is nodding off in bed.
How do you reason with someone like this?