Emails can get you into trouble

This article is concerned with emailing within the working environment. It touches on some of the problems that can be caused by emailing. How we don't give emailing the respect as an official document it deserves. Email can be used in a court of law to back up or deny certain information. It also gives a few do's and don'ts of email in an effort to help others avoid pitfalls which can occur.

Did you know that there is such a thing as email etiquette - for Work?

I don't know about you, but I have tripped into many pitfalls with my emails! Emails can have a tone, attitude, rudeness, and they can be offensive!

Many of us use email as a quick way of communicating something simple to another person without considering that written word often has more of an impact than anything else in society!

How many times have you read an email, which annoyed you initially, making you wanted to respond immediately yet once you re read it, you realized that maybe you had not really read it properly?

When we used to write letters to people years ago, you know the kind we used to pop in the mail with a stamp.

There was a formal way we were taught in school how to write letters.

How to format a letter, it was a skill! It was a part of an English lesson and we were tested on it, in my school

How many of us have had formal education on how to write emails? I haven't

I almost consider emails as a quick note, not paying it much attention, not really giving it much thought!

STOP emails are a written documentation and will follow you where ever you go!

They can be used against you as well as for you!

Be careful of what you write! It could come back and bite you on the left cheek! I am only discussing work emails here but the rules can apply to all emailing, the ones we write in the heat of the day.

I have complied a few simple rules of email which may help you in the future, and yes I am only touching on the topic but I have witnessed careers falling apart because Email has been used incorrectly.

1/ Do not send your emails as soon as you write them wait a few minutes return and look at it. Imagine you were receiving the email and consider if you would appreciate the tone and the content!

(It never fails to amaze how many ambiguities you manage to work into short and simple emails)

2/ If in doubt ask somebody you can trust to review before sending

3/ Do not email anything which could have serious future consequences for you. Emails can be used as evidence in a court of law

4/ Do not press reply all as a default, it may not be suitable! Review who the reply all will go to!

5/ Try to keep it short and sweet

6/ Clean up forwarding emails, you know the emails which contain great advice you want to share.

If you are at the end of such a sharing chain, you'll quickly see why cleaning up emails before forwarding them is essential: messages that have been forwarded multiple times often contain '>' and other quotation characters in all the wrong places, lines are broken in even worse places, and email addresses of people you don't want to know are everywhere.

7/ It is polite to let somebody know that you received their email and that it didn't get lost in cyber space or the spam bin

8/ Try to talk about one subject per email to avoid confusion

9/ Be careful using irony in emails especially if you don't know the person, it can cause multiple problems

10/ REMEMBER TO WRITE IN CAPITALS MEANS YOU ARE SHOUTING AT THE PERSON!

'My mother used to tell me don't write anything down which you really do not want to come back and haunt you'

Thank you for your advise, I completely agree that what you have written in the heat of the moment can be used against you. This is really helpful.

Specializes in Critical Care.

Timely article given the news about the Petraeus affair and how emails exposed the affair and more people are now caught in this web as it unravels! An email is permanent, even when you delete it, it still remains on the computer. It can even be used in a legal proceeding!

Specializes in telemetry.

The comments referencing the younger generation of people using incorrect grammar instinctively cause me to feel defensive. However, I am 35, so perhaps I am not as young as my inner self likes to believe. Regardless, the usage of incorrect grammar, spelling errors, text speak, and many other mistakes drive me crazy. I tend to go overboard since I even edit my informal texts to avoid sounding uneducated. I must admit that I am terrible when it comes to spelling but there are no excuses for sending any communication with incorrectly spelled words since most programs have spell check features. What do people think the red lines are under the words are for? It takes five seconds to fix spelling errors, and these days most programs have grammar editing features too. So I guess I'm old or an exception to the rule.

Specializes in telemetry.
Thank you for your advise, I completely agree that what you have written in the heat of the moment can be used against you. This is really helpful.

Just Saying.........

Specializes in RN, BSN, CHDN.

Actually I had no clue who Patraeus is, I had to look him up-LOL

My article came about because co-workers and myself have been getting in hot water with our emails

From the title of the thread I assumed this was about Patraeus.

Ah.

Emails.

I have seen some rather foolish foolish things put into emails.

One of the dumbest were the two employees, of a small family business, that were having a little whoopie on the side. The woman was the wife of the owner and the man was the brother of the owner. Both were much too far into their fantasy world to stop and think about the very fact that the owner had access to all email.

Yes, they were stupid enough to use the in-house email.

The owner called my hubby (a detective) and (with much restraint on the husband's part) just let the those two ding-dongs digs themselves in deeper and deeper. So, thanks to foolish emails, the wife ended up with a GPS tracker on her car and I spent my day off watching them hook up for a tryst in a park. Oh, boy! We got some nice pictures, too.

We were astounded by how stupid they were. They even expressed concerns as to whether of not "Joe" was catching on... but they never wavered from their mode of in-house email communication. Why? Oh, because Joe was "stupid", see. :sarcastic:

But my favorite stupid email story is one of when I suspected my ex-husband of reading my email.

Any suspicion that he was into my account was mere suspicion no more... when he accidentally emailed me from my own account!

The stupid jerk must've been in the midst of snooping through my email, when he realized he needed to communicate with me. He must have forgotten he was in my account, addressed an email to me and voila! Instant busted and disgusted...:roflmao:

I never made such a thoroughly enjoyable phone call as that day, when I got to tell him what he had done.

Don't let your emails be efails, folks.

Cheers !

Specializes in Critical Care, ED, Cath lab, CTPAC,Trauma.

You know what.......I had a job once that I got "talked to" because I shouted all the time in my emails and it was aggressive and un-professional. I remember thinking WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT???? Computers were new(ish) and the hospital used meditech, exclusively for all communications...we didn't have "hospital intra-net" Meditech is an all capital system so I had the caps lock on.....I remember thinking...... what in heavens name is she talking about?????? I finally stopped her as she was reading me the riot act about professionalism and I said.....I'll be happy to take the caps lock off it is not what you here but what does a cap lock have to do with professionalism.

Her return comment was...."I though you came with experience".....with disdain in her voice. That was the day I KNEW nursing was going to change forever and it made me sad.

I agree I think that "computer etiquette" need to be taught.....just like back in the day we were taught about writing formal and informal letters and how to use proper from/etiquette/letter head and greetings. As far as what I put out there....it's the rule I used as a teenager and why I NEVER kept a diary....NEVER put incriminating evidence in writing.

I am in SO much agreement with this article. AN is the first forum I ever really participated in since I am always misinterpreted because the tone in my head as I type usually does not translate to the reader. I'm very often mistaken for being cold and in my messages, yet at the time of type I am actually trying to convey what I am hoping is taken as a friendly comment.

Don't write anything, don't say anything or even think anything that can be used against you. I rarely send e-mails. If I e-mail someone from work, I always type it up as formal as a letter.

Specializes in Surgical, quality,management.

I remember learning about formal and informal letters at school. I am 28 and yet when I write an email to my DDON and she responds with text speak and smileys. It annoys me as I only contact her rarely. We do not have a relationship that means she can send me a line of text speak as a reply.

On the same vein, is it wrong that I do not repsond to real estate agents who do not use proper grammar? I know I could miss a great house but it annoys me no end!