Do nurses make a difference?

YES!!!!! ❤️

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41 minutes ago, Been there,done that said:

I went into the field many years ago. I was idealistic and hoped to save lives and comfort the sick/ dying.

Were we successful.. at all?

Ditto for me too.

Of course we were successful! Even though I haven't always had the time to do things for the pts that I would have liked to, looking back over my many years I can remember those pts that I did take a few extra minutes, went above and beyond, and know that in some way I made a (positive) difference in their lives.

I am positive (from ready some of your past posts) that you have too!!

I get enough thank yous, I know s/he is in good hands, families who are confident enough in me that they will go home and sleep.. even hugs. My unit also sees a lot of pt’s come back months later and say “thank you for saving my life.”

I feel like we make a difference.

Real life seldom looks like the movies where the music swells, emotion overpours and all is saved and there will never be problems again.

There is nothing wrong with replacing an idealistic placeholder with more realistic expectations as you gain experience. A lot of those ideals were based on dreams and fantasies, and will be updated with real interaction.

We all want to save lives while keeping in mind that the human mortality rate remains unchanged at 100%.

We want to improve people's lives, but sometimes people don't seem motivated to care for themselves. We accept human limitations.

I was less idealistic and more practical going into nursing. Nursing has given me a lot of satisfaction. The key was having\developing realistic expectations of myself and other people and making peace with it.

55 minutes ago, RNperdiem said:

Real life seldom looks like the movies where the music swells, emotion overpours and all is saved and there will never be problems again.

There is nothing wrong with replacing an idealistic placeholder with more realistic expectations as you gain experience. A lot of those ideals were based on dreams and fantasies, and will be updated with real interaction.

We all want to save lives while keeping in mind that the human mortality rate remains unchanged at 100%.

We want to improve people's lives, but sometimes people don't seem motivated to care for themselves. We accept human limitations.

I was less idealistic and more practical going into nursing. Nursing has given me a lot of satisfaction. The key was having\developing realistic expectations of myself and other people and making peace with it.

Well said.

I basically went into nursing with the ideal to help people and to lift myself out of a life of struggle living from paycheck to paycheck. I never thought I was in a "calling" or an "Angle of Mercy" or will save lives.

Still, I've sent many patients to ICU, recognized a man with compartment syndrome, recognized a pulmonary embolism, CHF, a bowel perf, etc. and I would like to think my critical thinking and assessment skills made a difference in getting them treated.

Realistically, with heavy ratios and stress, I'll admit I missed some things I've later beaten myself up over and made some mistakes. I've lost some patients. Reality has slapped me in the face many times.

Yes!!

Thinking of this career as a whole, it sometimes feels hard to think of it as a success, because so many outside factors affect how we do our jobs. But when you consider each individual shift and each individual patient, chances are that you have done something important for them - even if it's a simple thing! There are days when I have to shift my focus from, "Did I save someone's life?" to, "Did I keep that person safe while they were confused and aggressive? Did I educate them well enough that they'll really be ready for discharge? Did I push hard enough to manage their pain?" Some of these things feel small to us, but from the other side they do make a huge difference. It feels better to judge myself based on that than on the idealistic, sometimes unrealistic standards I had before actually working as a nurse.

Well, my goal was to help women have a positive and empowering birth experience. And I have saved every thank-you card I've received, and I know there are a handful of women out there for whom I've made a difference. So I would say that I have been successful.

Well that depends on your actions and deeds on the job. Let's be honest, most folks are selfish by nature. My biggest stress on the job is not most of the patients, the state/government that come crawling out from under their rocks to hyper regulate us with this totally foolish idea that the quality of care can be measured by 'more documentation". Where have you heard that before? Such a curse upon the land when they allow lawyers and other parasites to hijack and terrorize society. Rather, it is the people I work with. Most 'management' slave drivers are the worst. Yet despite all the vile, despicable, selfish laziness and indifference I deal with on the job, one positive thing I believe destiny has brought me to this line or work.

It gives some a chance to bring out their better nature, to advance themselves spiritually or religiously. Spontaneous acts like turning someone or changing them because we have one exhausted CNA for 50 people when your immediate gratification is to get a cappuccino and resting your aching legs and back for minute brings out your true character. Most nurses, especially the management slave drivers, will never help but will fire us floor slaves if we have the audacity to suggest they could help.

That being said, which few can deny, this line of work can be a blessing as it can be a true blessing for you. It can bring out your better nature and you advance spiritually by learning to aid others in need without the standard issue 'look at me' public display of self serving altruism.

So if your heart is pure and your soul achieves selflessness, this is one of the best careers you may have been directed to/chosen for.

It all depends on your true, selfless spirit and the choices you make. We are given free will to make these choices. Make your own bed a lay in it as you chose.

I cannot remember if I was already a nurse or not, but I remember watching an episode of the Oprah show, and Dr Phil was being introduced. A long time ago. He was giving advice and a nurse was saying how basically things were not what she thought they should be and she wanted to leave the job. He basically told her to be the one who makes the difference.

I literally from a young age grew up around a ltc facility. I knew what I was getting myself into.

Everyday I do my best for the patients, I've had many thanks just for being kind. I advocate for my patients even in little things. I push myself to do this for the difficult ones too. I say I don't need this in writing, but sometimes it hurts someone didn't put it in writing as so many of my co-workers get this recognition.

I sometimes beat myself up for not accomplishing everything, dealing with difficult work situations and sometimes people (co-workers for me). In this profession I am my own worse enemy. And yet at the end of the day I can always say I did my best, even when co-workers say "your too nice...I wouldn't have done that..." I believe that in little ways everyday I make a small difference.

Added: I may not always comfort a dying pt, I've done it. I catch things that could have been missed, but save lives I don't know. I don't always believe it, but what we do and say does make a difference.