We have to live with the worst of our party that the other side doesn't like.
My father is conservative and voted for Trump. As a younger man he was a Democrat but switched. He's a veteran and is no way no how is against Democracy because he fought for it. He's pro-gay marriage (which is great having a gay son and all), he's not a racist and he's vaccinated. I for the life of me can't understand his voting for Trump but I do not part of it is that he's from Texas and is very much against illegal immigration. We don't talk about politics much. All three of his kids are die-hard liberals.
Don't feel bad, I'm part of a group that hates America, is a communist, wants to come for your guns, wants an open border where anyone can walk in and get free stuff, wants to destroy the economy, will let covid destroy our civil liberties, wants everything for free without working for it, and wants men in dresses in bathrooms to rape your daughters. As Beerman said another "Democrat idiot". It's my lot in life to be viewed this way.