I posted this here becaue I think this subject is something that we as nurses deal with on a regular basis.....Many many people state that they have a big problem with the feeding being stopped "allowing her to starve to death" The Vatican says " To starve her to death is pitiless" Most everyone agrees that it is one's right to refuse to initiate artificial feeding but somehow this situation "is different" How? The patient "starves to death " in both cases-so why has this one galvanized the WORLD? My husband read me a quote from the Bible -forgive me because I can't remember it in detail-it was something along the lines that a woman marries and leaves her father's house and her husband becomes her family....My husband is my POA I hope no-one in my family questions his motives -He KNOWS exactly what I want....I can't question her husbands motives-I know that some suspect foul play and state the results of a bone scan support this...That bone scan was obtained 53 months after she went into her coma-after her body suffered the effects of her eating disorders for a number of years.... Her present level of responsiveness does not pertain to this matter IMHO-she CAN'T eat naturally--she did not ever want to "be kept alive like that " and she can't state otherwise at this point...So- #1 can someone PLEASE make me see why this case is" DIFFERENT" and #2 How do YOU support your patients and their loved ones when they are agonizing over this decision? ONe thing I always ask is "Did your loved one ever give you any idea of what they would want if something like this happened" and if they did then I advocate that stance for that pt as much possible.......I believe that death is the last great trip we'll go on and we should PLAN it as much as possible.The greatest GIFT we can give to our loved ones is an itinerary...........
[color=#660066]from [color=#660066]end-of-life options: tube feeding
www.dickinson.edu/endoflife/medicinecommon.html
[color=#660066]what happens when one forgoes food and fluids at the end of life?
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[color=#adb87f]"tube feeding" -- right or wrong: the medical, legal and ethical issues
[color=#adb87f]david e. milkes, m.d.
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[color=#adb87f]pegs and the law
starting with the case of karen ann quinlan in 1976, the united states courts have spoken loud and clear about the use of life-sustaining treatments and artificial nutrition and hydration. the courts have repeatedly upheld the principle that competent patients may refuse or withdraw any medical treatment, even if that treatment is necessary to sustain life.
in the nancy cruzan case in 1990, the majority ruling of the u.s. supreme court held that there is no difference between the termination of artificial nutrition and hydration, and other forms of treatment.14 furthermore, the american medical association, a president's commission and almost every appellate court decision have agreed that artificial nutrition and hydration is a form of medical treatment that may be legally refused.15 competent patients have the legal right to refuse tube feedings.
but what about patients who cannot express their own wishes? in the quinlan case, the court determined that family members may refuse life-support on behalf of an incompetent patient.16 only two states, new york and missouri, have strict requirements that surrogate decision-makers present "clear and convincing" evidence that the patient, if he or she were competent, would not have wished artificial nutrition and hydration given their present medical condition. courts have recognized written statements and conversations with family and friends as constituting "clear and convincing" evidence.
to assist physicians and families in making medical decisions for incompetent patients, most state legislatures have passed laws allowing advance directives to be honored. an advance directive is a statement that a person makes, while competent, expressing their wishes about treatment in the future, should they lose the capacity to make decisions. it may provide written instructions about treatment (a living will) or may designate another person to make treatment decisions (a proxy or durable power of attorney).
all health care facilities receiving medicare or medicaid are legally obligated to provide their patients with written information about their rights to accept or refuse medical treatments. patients admitted to these facilities must be provided the opportunity to complete advance directives. in cases where no family member or legal instrument are available to determine the wishes of an incompetent patient, physicians generally err in the direction of preserving life as long as the anticipated benefits of treatment outweigh the burdens.
although each state has its own set of laws about terminating life-support, there is usually nothing to prevent tube feedings from being legally withdrawn after they have been initiated. with the exception of illinois, no state requires a physician to seek a court order to withhold or withdraw tube feedings. rather, the courts overwhelmingly favor allowing such personal and emotional issues be dealt with directly by family and through the physician-patient relationship....
furthermore, families must also realize that once a peg has been placed, it is both legal and ethical to withdraw the tube, should the patient's suffering become extreme. ideally, the conditions under which the peg might be withdrawn in the future should be discussed and agreed upon prior to peg placement....
read more:
[color=#adb87f]http://www.thedoctorwillseeyounow.com/articles/senior_living/peg_14/
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guiding the decisions of physicians and families in end-of-life care:the case of long-term feeding tube placement
tube feeding does not necessarily provide medical benefit to the dying patient by enhancing quality of life nor by reducing suffering.
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■ tube feeding is associated with increased agitation and may reduce quality of life and dignity because it increases the need for physical restraints;7
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■ typically, dying patients do not experience hunger or thirst;
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■ malnutrition, a concomitant of the natural dying process, should not be confused with "starvation";
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■ while dry mouth commonly occurs in dying patients, tube feeding does not relieve it;
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■ complete relief from symptoms associated with dry mouth may be achieved with ice chips, moist sponge, sips of liquid, lip moisteners, hard candy, and mouth care."
http://www.ncmedicaljournal.com/jul-aug-04/ar070410.pdf
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american dietetic association (ada)
ethical and legal issues in nutrition, hydration, and feeding
...the multi-society task force on persistent vegetative state defines the persistent vegetative state as "a vegetative state present one month after acute traumatic or nontraumatic brain injury or lasting for at least one month in patients with degenerative or metabolic disorders or developmental malformations" (7). since the patient in this condition cannot feel pain, the burden cannot be physical. however, can the burden be emotional or financial? can treatment be medically futile but of emotional benefit? arguments that feeding is a benefit because of the sanctity of life can be countered with arguments about the dignity of death. if care providers decide that there is an obligation to feed the persistently unconscious patient, they may change the moral obligation to a moral option after the passing of time suggests that the patient's state will be permanent.
according to tong, a singular patient goal of prolonging life is not an independent goal, but, rather, it is a dependent goal. the physician's responsibility is "restoring and correcting" (8). while there is general agreement that patients have the right to refuse treatment, the question is whether they have the right to demand treatment if it is nonbeneficial or medically inappropriate. the wanglie case examines this issue. the debate on the definition of futility is in the early stages and incomplete. public values and standards of care for persistently unconscious patients will evolve. angell states "that any solution must be a principled one that applies generally and is established by consensus, in the same way that death was redefined as brain death" (9).
an additional issue in the treatment of patients is the "need to ensure a just and fair allocation of scarce resources" (6).the question of whether cost should be a factor in clinical ethical decision making will intensify as resources become more scarce. the central question remains what the patient prefers, but allows for what providers consider worthwhile. this can be formulated into the key ethical discussion of what is wanted and what is warranted. what is wanted by the patient or family and warranted by evidence-based medicine. it may be that what is wanted is not warranted or what is not wanted is warranted. how to clarify and then resolve this conflict is the essence of the ethical deliberative process, (see figure 1).
the issue of justice and patient feeding may intensify, especially for the permanently unconscious. tong suggests that with respect to permanently unconscious patients, legislative or social changes may be the solution (8 ). for instance, if the definition of death were changed to be the death of higher brain functions, the permanently unconscious patient might be considered dead. this change would mean that society, rather than the physician would decide when a patient is dead; however, the lack of diagnostic certainty complicates this approach. or to deal with the rationing of health care debate, it could be required as a principle of justice that people who want to live in a permanently unconscious state purchase such insurance or pay for the care and feeding. angell suggests that the presumption should be that the permanently unconscious patient would not want to be alive in that state (9).
the distinction between physician aid in dying and the withdrawal or withholding of artificial nutrition and hydration is widely recognized. withdrawing or withholding nutrition and hydration centers on the physician's obligation to honor a patient's refusal of life-sustaining treatment. such a refusal requires the physician to carry out an action or omission. these acts and omissions are morally and legally required because it is the patient's right of refusal that is overriding. such acts and omissions are not defined as "physician aid in dying" because the physician has not provided the necessary medical means for the patient to commit suicide. patients, without being terminally ill, may refuse medical treatment, including food and fluids. a position paper by the american college of physicians recommends honoring "voluntary refusal of hydration and nutrition" (10). health care providers must uphold the patient's wishes whether they agree or disagree, or transfer the patient to another health care provider (11).
http://www.eatright.org/member/policyinitiatives/index_21046.cfm
I did the exact same thing, I told my friends, family and coworkers that I would haunt them until the day that they died if I was in that situation. Its gotten pathetic to me. I feel so sorry for that woman in that bed. The families are acting like two spoiled chidren fighting over a toy. The husband is the POA he says pull the tube, doctor ok's it, fine pull the tube. It's not pleasent to some but thats how our laws are set up.
In an MSNBC poll 58% of 74,801 people who have voted online say the tube shouldn't be reinserted.
It seems to me, the one piece being missed here is that this woman has already been in a vegetative state for fifteen years. The family stating that they think she can get better makes it sound like this just happened last week and already her husband wants to disconnect life support. What kind of life does this woman have, who would want to exist like that. It's a disgrace that the politicians and the courts have gotten into this power struggle. I believe her husband is fighting for what he knows she would want. If he didn't care about her, he would just take the path of least resistance, divorce her and let her live in this vegetative state forever. The other piece to this is, who is paying for her to live in this vegetative state in a time when almost a quarter of our people have no health coverage,.
Well, In an effort to answer your question #1 IT IS NOT DIFFRENT from any other case. The public is being drawn into a family feud with money via the gracious black journalism we have come to know and love. It is ignorance to think that this is the first time this scenario has been played out. It was just before; there wasn't the money to be had by the players to take it into the public stage. And now congress is getting involved, OH God please help us when we the public need the government to TELL get involved even more than they are in our personal lives. This is not about Terri but about a struggle over WHO has control over her.
#2 How to handle this type of situation with family members? I have to admit it is a gray area with a potential slippery slope; but given REAL information with data from MD's with the backbone to state "the EEG is Flat! " etc. Allows the family permission to let go and come together and grieve together.
The general public cannot understand the personal motivations of her husband or her family. I can say he's standing his ground against pushy and unrealistic in-laws. But what does it matter except now the government is getting way to involved into the private matters of personal lives; to answer the basic underlying question "Who IS the POA " the husband or can someone else cause enough stir and confusion in the name of "HUMANITY" to take it away.
AS long as there have been medical advances that change and alter the disease process alleviating death, this scenario will continually repeat itself.
I'm already reading the attitudes I'm afraid of . .. . calling a human being made in God's image a "vegetable". Like she isn't worth anything. Like she is garbage.That is the slippery slope, come home to roost. Already.
Some human beings aren't worthy of life . . .so let's kill them.
It is a scary world.
steph
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But you see, it is easier to view a person in this way.
If you ever saw the movie Awakenings, Robin Williams character tells another Dr., "how do you know there is no consciousness there"? Speaking of people who appear to be in a catatonic state.
And the Dr. replies, "because to think otherwise is the unthinkable".
Based on the true story of a research physician who uses an experimental drug to "awaken" the catatonic victims of a rare sleeping sickness.
I agree. Thank you for saying a lot of how I feel on this. I am sickened here....and sick of the government sticking its nose in. And I sick of the media treatment of this case. It's a circus, not a humanitarian case any longer. I am beyond fed up and disgusted.Well, In an effort to answer your question #1 IT IS NOT DIFFRENT from any other case. The public is being drawn into a family feud with money via the gracious black journalism we have come to know and love. It is ignorance to think that this is the first time this scenario has been played out. It was just before; there wasn't the money to be had by the players to take it into the public stage. And now congress is getting involved, OH God please help us when we the public need the government to TELL get involved even more than they are in our personal lives. This is not about Terri but about a struggle over WHO has control over her.#2 How to handle this type of situation with family members? I have to admit it is a gray area with a potential slippery slope; but given REAL information with data from MD's with the backbone to state "the EEG is Flat! " etc. Allows the family permission to let go and come together and grieve together.
The general public cannot understand the personal motivations of her husband or her family. I can say he's standing his ground against pushy and unrealistic in-laws. But what does it matter except now the government is getting way to involved into the private matters of personal lives; to answer the basic underlying question "Who IS the POA " the husband or can someone else cause enough stir and confusion in the name of "HUMANITY" to take it away.
AS long as there have been medical advances that change and alter the disease process alleviating death, this scenario will continually repeat itself.
I have been following this forum for a while...I don't deny that what Terri may experience isn't going to be pretty...the thing is I don't know and neither do you what all was damaged in the brain...particular nerons may or may not be there for her to feel the symptoms, I pray they are not.In comparison to what she has gone threw for 15 yrs of life...and what we all know will happen if she has the tube replaced..to me that is worse. I stand by the fact I don't wanna live like that..what quality of life do you have in a bed??? Not any imo!
If the government/courts feel Micheal is so wrong, grant him a divorce...hence removing his legal obligations and rights and make her family pay for the medical care that she is recieving. I have said this once before and I will say it again...if this wasn't a power trip for the family they should have offered to pay all medical cost...sign legal aggreements...if the government feels this is wrong...then they should grant him a divorce...plain and simple.
I understand why he has moved on. In respect to the blinds being closed, lots of camera's would love to get pictures of his wife..how would you feel with your wife stuff in a bed, brain dead to your knowledge, not particularly looking the best, those things I can understand...
Now if he denied treatmeant to make her more comfortable that isn't right, if he denied treatment because he felt if would be more harm then good.
IMHO, the family needs to stop fighting the tube issue and fight for the courts to grant a divorce and then take over all legal obligation of the patients medical cost and them be her HCPOA. To me this seems like a huge power trip of a womens life...it is a whole lot of hearsay...Why haven't the family requested to take over the cost? Fight the courts for a divorce for her daughter? Or ask Micheal for a divorce? That to me makes there story fishy...
I have read what that nurse states in the sworn statement...alot of it to me sounds ridiculous and as if she is trying to get back at that LPN, which what was the point of mentioning her name?? It really made no sense, also IMO she didn't stand up to her obligations as a nurse..if she really saw or believed half of the things she is saying then why didn't she do more than just chart??? Is this nursing home being investigated for fraudulent records??? I think if that came out that state board of nursing would be all over that...Also if she has sworn this why hasn't it been on tape of him saying those things...because those are death threats and simple law enforcement can interact with that...also if she saw her chart notes being deleted, why didn't she start to copy them or print them out depending on the system used? As for the nursing home following what micheal says about not calling the family...THAT IS THE LAW, unless Terri says or has something put into place...that nurse could have been/probally was in deep trouble for calling the family. Don't get me wrong I think the family should know too, but it isn't my place to decide that or tell them that. Finally, if I thought a patient of mine was being abused by spouse/family, I sure the hell wouldn't sit back and not open the door...I would use excuses like time for this or that, or Micheal you have a call...come on this is a nurse who sounds like she messed up and is trying to fix it or make her record of employeement look clean. If she came and stated some of things she did then fine but some of it is just to far fetched...She is accusing this nursing home of corrising with Micheal...that is a conspiracy..don't you think that the Fed. Govern. would be getting involved right about now???
In conclusion imo, the fight shouldn't be about the tube it should be about the family taking over financial responsibility and getting the courts to grant a divorce.
What Terri may have to go threw is horrific, but the fact remains that Micheal is in control, we can't change that..however the family could if they would fight for legal rights and get that divorce. I just keeping asking myself, why hasn't that been done or thought of yet??? Perhaps because it is more of a power trip than a love trip???
I realize you may just be jumping in here so you may not know some information.
Terri's parents have offered to care for their daughter, take over all financial responsibilities, have asked Michael to divorce their daughter . . . Michael has refused all this. That is not Terri's parent's fault.
The family IS FIGHTING for legal rights. They have been for years.
steph
____________But you see, it is easier to view a person in this way.
If you ever saw the movie Awakenings, Robin Williams character tells another Dr., "how do you know there is no consciousness there"? Speaking of people who appear to be in a catatonic state.
And the Dr. replies, "because to think otherwise is the unthinkable".
Based on the true story of a research physician who uses an experimental drug to "awaken" the catatonic victims of a rare sleeping sickness.
Kyriaka and others that are standing up for life. Keep up the good work. The Human Life Alliance at http://www.humanlife.org is a great organization. The Pope has a stand on this for any Catholic nurses. I tried in the past to express myself on this issue of Terri, but you have had the patience to carry on. May God bless you, for opening the eyes of many people.
If the husband has behaved so horribly why have the courts not taken away his right to make medical decisions? If he had something to do with her condition why have the courts allowed him to remain in control of his wife's medical care? Obviously, there is not enough proof or the courts would have taken action.
I would also like to know how the doctors should have known she was bulimic. Apparently, the parents and husband didn't even know. As a former bulimic, let me tell you no one knew until I decided to seek treatment. Bulimics are experts at hiding it.
underwatergirl
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I have been following this forum for a while...I don't deny that what Terri may experience isn't going to be pretty...the thing is I don't know and neither do you what all was damaged in the brain...particular nerons may or may not be there for her to feel the symptoms, I pray they are not.
In comparison to what she has gone threw for 15 yrs of life...and what we all know will happen if she has the tube replaced..to me that is worse. I stand by the fact I don't wanna live like that..what quality of life do you have in a bed??? Not any imo!
If the government/courts feel Micheal is so wrong, grant him a divorce...hence removing his legal obligations and rights and make her family pay for the medical care that she is recieving. I have said this once before and I will say it again...if this wasn't a power trip for the family they should have offered to pay all medical cost...sign legal aggreements...if the government feels this is wrong...then they should grant him a divorce...plain and simple.
I understand why he has moved on. In respect to the blinds being closed, lots of camera's would love to get pictures of his wife..how would you feel with your wife stuff in a bed, brain dead to your knowledge, not particularly looking the best, those things I can understand...
Now if he denied treatmeant to make her more comfortable that isn't right, if he denied treatment because he felt if would be more harm then good.
IMHO, the family needs to stop fighting the tube issue and fight for the courts to grant a divorce and then take over all legal obligation of the patients medical cost and them be her HCPOA. To me this seems like a huge power trip of a womens life...it is a whole lot of hearsay...Why haven't the family requested to take over the cost? Fight the courts for a divorce for her daughter? Or ask Micheal for a divorce? That to me makes there story fishy...
I have read what that nurse states in the sworn statement...alot of it to me sounds ridiculous and as if she is trying to get back at that LPN, which what was the point of mentioning her name?? It really made no sense, also IMO she didn't stand up to her obligations as a nurse..if she really saw or believed half of the things she is saying then why didn't she do more than just chart??? Is this nursing home being investigated for fraudulent records??? I think if that came out that state board of nursing would be all over that...Also if she has sworn this why hasn't it been on tape of him saying those things...because those are death threats and simple law enforcement can interact with that...also if she saw her chart notes being deleted, why didn't she start to copy them or print them out depending on the system used? As for the nursing home following what micheal says about not calling the family...THAT IS THE LAW, unless Terri says or has something put into place...that nurse could have been/probally was in deep trouble for calling the family. Don't get me wrong I think the family should know too, but it isn't my place to decide that or tell them that. Finally, if I thought a patient of mine was being abused by spouse/family, I sure the hell wouldn't sit back and not open the door...I would use excuses like time for this or that, or Micheal you have a call...come on this is a nurse who sounds like she messed up and is trying to fix it or make her record of employeement look clean. If she came and stated some of things she did then fine but some of it is just to far fetched...She is accusing this nursing home of corrising with Micheal...that is a conspiracy..don't you think that the Fed. Govern. would be getting involved right about now???
In conclusion imo, the fight shouldn't be about the tube it should be about the family taking over financial responsibility and getting the courts to grant a divorce.
What Terri may have to go threw is horrific, but the fact remains that Micheal is in control, we can't change that..however the family could if they would fight for legal rights and get that divorce. I just keeping asking myself, why hasn't that been done or thought of yet??? Perhaps because it is more of a power trip than a love trip???