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I am new to this online world of talking on forums. I've made a mess of things, and I ask your forgiveness.
I'm not a 'troll' although that is a reasonably new term I've discovered.
I have lots of stories, some really difficult ones, but when/if I post them in the future, I will give much better background information.
I have worked with several US nurses over here in the school job, and they've been great. I have seen some cultural differences, not good or bad, just different, but we got on great, and keep in touch even though they're back in America.
So, again, my apologies for getting off on the wrong foot.
Sincerely
A rather stunned newbie to the online world
I trot this out as needed.My advice for those so inclined to take it on the internet forum experience:
1) Not everyone is going to hear what you say the way you want it heard.
2) Someone is going to be offended, opposed or misunderstand/misinterpret your thoughts.
3) Someone will find angles into the topic you never would have entertained.
4) Someone is going to yank your chain.
5) Once you start a thread/topic- it is not yours anymore.
6) Pick your battles.
7) It's the internet.
Reminds me of a sign I once saw posted in a friends bathroom - It said men like the seat up women like it down - it has hinges get over it!
hppy
Hey, at least it hasn't been boring with your input! Boring is the ultimate in bad on forums. If you can learn to ignore or otherwise somehow live with the inevitable negativity in the wild world of the internet the arguments can actually be fun.
That said the arguments also shouldn't be personal. Debate the post, not the poster. If you do feel offended by somebody's response feel free to flag it. Use the little exclamation point in the yellow triangle at the bottom of the post, this reports the post as against the sites TOS and will be followed up on by the mods.
Anytime you walk into a room full of strangers it is wise to keep your mouth shut and ears open until you get the lay of the land.
In a word, lurk.
If that is a new word, it means to hang out, read some threads, learn the language, get a sense of what is offensive, hot buttons, respectful disagreement etc., before starting topics of a questionable nature.
It's not worth it. I think I have some really interesting stories to share, but it's simply not worth it. I don't have a thick enough skin for this, although I now I have had such a response, I would like to continue. But at the end of the day, I might just keep my adventures to myself.
And that's perfectly alright.
nursingaround1
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It's not worth it. I think I have some really interesting stories to share, but it's simply not worth it. I don't have a thick enough skin for this, although I now I have had such a response, I would like to continue. But at the end of the day, I might just keep my adventures to myself.