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I like all the bright, ambitious, hard working and intelligent young women I get to work with. I love teaching these bright young ladies coming out of college every year eager to learn and excited for their future.
I also working with the older, experienced and street wise nurses who have been doing this job for years and have a wealth of great advice and tips to offer. I have (and continue to) learn so much from these ladies.
I find that being a male allows me to avoid much of the drama and reduces interpersonal communication barriers that I often see between female nurses. The young nurses are happy to learn from me and the older nurses are happy to teach me.
Being welcome nearly everywhere I go as an agency nurse. And the little things I can do without effort that make my co-worker's lives easier. Like shutting down perv patients/family members. De-escalating outbursts/violence by simply showing up (I'm not a small man).
Though my favorite has been running down the hall assisting the aides/techs with their rounds. I get to teach them some of my methods and make things much easier for them. All while running away with their dirty linen and trash teasing, " yooou can't catch me - I'm the gingerbread man!"
I feel that I can add a different dynamic to the workplace that may be primarily dominated by women. During nursing school, I would hear about drama that would be going on between students right in front of me, but be oblivious to it. Being oblivious to it, I was able to connect people together that wouldn't otherwise. Sometimes being a male, a patient receives my communication differently. Sometimes it is good and sometimes it isn't. However, I can add to the diversity of nursing by being a male and loving what I do.
DatMurse
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Obv since I made the thread ill go first.
I have my own private clean bathroom at night.