Nurses Smoking: Compassion Instead of Judgement

In this article the author goes over some of the reasons nurses continue to smoke and urges a compassionate approach with an encouraging touch toward all who struggle with habits that are hard to overcome. Nurses General Nursing Article

My friend excused herself after a long meeting. I knew where she was going - to the cold parking deck, to get in her car, to have a cigarette, to still her craving so she could get back to work and concentrate on her job.

If you have watched any movies about the 1960's lately, you probably realize that many fewer people smoke now than did at that time. In '65, a little over 40% of the population smoked (including large numbers of health care providers!) and now a fewer than 15% do (Center for Disease Control and Prevention)."Recent declines in smoking among health care professionals may reflect the impact of national tobacco control policies and efforts focused on reducing smoking among registered nurses. After little change in prevalence from 2003 to 2006-2007, the drop in smoking among registered nurses was more than twice that of the 13 percent decrease in the population." (Study Examines Prevalence of Smoking Among Health Care Professionals - For The Media - JAMA Network) While there is encouraging news, smoking in the general population and among nurses remains a commonplace occurrence.

Most of us have friends who smoke, nurse friends, co-workers, and others. Smoking or not smoking is a touchy topic and just bringing it up makes people want to go to different sides of the room, flinging hot, angry flaming arrows at one another. While we all have opinions, and those opinions matter, especially in the face of compelling evidence, we do ourselves and others a disservice when we retreat and point fingers at each other. How can we keep reaching out to each other, being patient and compassionate no matter what our particular challenges are?

Bad habits are notably hard to overcome and substance abuse, including addictions to nicotine, can be particularly noisome. For anyone who has any type of bad habit-most of us have at least one-we know how hard it is to overcome. Listing all types of bad habits here will not help us proceed in our conversation for as humans we automatically want to compare our bad habit to smoking and say-"Well, mine isn't THAT bad." Maybe not. But let's all admit that it's pretty hard to compare bad habits and it's even harder to cease a bad habit. Our tendency to look at others' faults with less compassion than we look at our own is pretty universal and sadly also difficult to overcome. Myriad studies have been done on overcoming the compulsion of bad habits and no matter how you look at them, they all say the same thing: giving up a bad habit is hard work and relapsing is as easy as taking a puff or two.

So first, how can we cultivate an attitude of grace and compassion toward members of our profession who continue to struggle with an addiction to nicotine? One thing that might help is to realize that we are all susceptible to the clinging effects of our own vices. Being honest with ourselves and vulnerable to one another, we take the first step in reaching out to a friend who is struggling with support and care instead of judgment and condemnation.

It's hard for people who are not addicted to nicotine to fully understand its effects and the pervasive reach it has throughout smokers' lives: home, travel, work, entertainment-all can be powerful influences in keeping a person tied to their habit.

  1. Long-term smokers may have linkage behaviors or triggers that contribute to the continuation of the habit-things like group smoking, an association between a morning coffee and a cigarette, alcohol, good feelings perceived to be related to smoking, less anxiety, even daily bowel rituals.
  2. The process of withdrawal can be scary for some-especially if they have gone through it before-and lead them to put off the day they quit.
  3. Nicotine increases dopamine levels and produces a temporary feeling of well-being, of less anxiety and of increased concentration, all reinforcing the behavior and keeping smokers coming back for one more. While these perceived benefits are small and time/dose limited, quitting to "normalize" the body's equilibrium can be daunting for some.
  4. Defiance of established norms or expected behavior-For a variety of reasons, people sometimes continue to smoke to defy societal expectations. There are times when society can be perceived as imposing a veritable straitjacket of limitations and guidelines, leading some to throw up their hands and disregard some of the more basic cautionary information, including the tsunami of information about the dangers of nicotine.
  5. Concerns about weight gain- Weight issues may seem to pale in comparison to the side effects of smoking but this is a real concern for many.

With great sadness, a physician friend once pointed out ruefully, "I have had some success in encouraging people from all walks of life to quit-including some nurses. But at other times, I have failed. I wish that more times I had pointed out that the real danger of smoking is not dying, it is actually continuing to live in the face of the limitations that long-term addiction invariably imposes on the human body. In the end, people wish they could die."

Smoking is a bad habit. No doubt about it. But maybe we can find ways to offer each other more compassionate support and less judgment. How can we be a force of encouragement to our peers?

Joy Eastridge

Specializes in ICU, LTACH, Internal Medicine.
Whatever do you do when you have the patient room with visitors who reek of smoke?

I politely asked family to move to visitor room for a short time, especially if they wanted to speak. If they also wanted to know why, I told them. Most understood. I would ever bring them coffee.

Otherwise, I'd let my charge to know that there was hus/her choice between changing assignments and finishing the shift short of one full nurse who was clinical and technical resource for the rest. The answer was pretty obvious.

And, yeah, I would never work in ER, Urgent care and similar settings, my asthma being one of the major reasons.

Thank you for your kind comment. When we step back, we remember that it is easy to condemn but harder to be constructive and supportive. I hope that we can serve as an encouragement to one another as we all struggle with our very own troubles. Joy

I really don't see nurses condemning other nurses for smoking per se. What they do condemn is the collateral damage inflicted on other people and frankly I think it's pretty understandable. When I, as an asthmatic, have to walk through a cloud of smoke just to get into the hospital on our "non-smoking" campus, try to enjoy lunch outside on a nice day with of course more smoke, cover multiple breaks without the favor being returned, have nice areas for everyone's use littered with gross cigarette butts and more smoke, have my winter coat come home smelling like stale cigarettes because it has to hang in a room with the coats of heavy smokers that's when I start having an issue. Let me put it to you this way. Smoke is the by product of smoking. Yes? Well my addiction is Coke Zero. The by product of drinking Coke Zero is urine. So I guess it's okay for me to pee all over your clothes, work space and the places you like to take your lunch. Ridiculous no? I'm not trying to be surly but after ending up in the ED more times than I can count as a result of someone else's addiction (to cigarettes, body spray, air freshener) I get a little crispy when I'm admonished to be more compassionate. I'm doing the best I can to control a health condition that I DID NOT CAUSE only to have it undone by some people who don't follow the rules of my institution or the rules of common courtesy. Now, before you go there, I know not all smokers are discourteous but so many are it's hard to separate one from the other. And FTR any addiction or bad habit is no better or worse than smoking. They're all stupid and almost all of us have one or two that we should probably quit doing so I'm not going to throw stones.

Specializes in LTC, Rehab.
Whatever do you do when you have the patient room with visitors who reek of smoke?

For those old enough to remember reading the Peanuts comic strip, and the character Pig Pen, who had a cloud of dirt following him around: that's what it was like for me in the LTC/rehab where I worked, when I walked by a resident or co-worker who had just gone out to smoke. It was like a cloud still surrounded them.

Specializes in NICU.

After what I went through encouraging a relative to quit,I would never ever be a party to that again.Some people will not do well with out this crutch and the stress that occurs can be life changing.This person is still alive and well,better than me actually (I am not a smoker)I have other issues. Regrettably, I have lost the comfort and love of a friend forever.

Specializes in Psych, Corrections, Med-Surg, Ambulatory.

I find it much easier to have compassion when I'm not personally affected. When someone smells so bad I get an instant headache it is no different from any other kind of offensive body odour. The same people wouldn't dream of going out without having showered recently or skip their antiperspirant.

Back when restaurants used to ask you "Smoking or non?" if I was with a smoker they ALWAYS promptly answered "Smoking". No one ever opted for non-smoking for my benefit or even asked me if I minded. I found that kind of arrogance off-putting, no different from constantly needing me to cover their patients for their frequent breaks. When I have to listen to someone loudly ranting about anti-smoking policies "because it's none of anyone's business if I smoke!" I can only shake my head.

Compassion works both ways. I can have a lot more compassion for someone's struggle with addiction when they show a modicum of awareness of how they affect others.

Specializes in LTC, Rehab.
After what I went through encouraging a relative to quit,I would never ever be a party to that again.Some people will not do well with out this crutch and the stress that occurs can be life changing.This person is still alive and well,better than me actually (I am not a smoker)I have other issues. Regrettably, I have lost the comfort and love of a friend forever.

Oh yeah, I learned a long time ago that rarely can anyone get someone to quit an addiction. Once in a while you'll hear someone say 'so-and-so got lung cancer, and man, I just quit cold turkey', but 9 out of 10 won't do that. THEY have to decide they want to quit whatever type of addiction it is. Anyone else's encouragement, information, nagging, etc. will rarely do it, or at least in my experience that's the case.

Among other things I don't like about addictions (and as I said in another post on this thread, I was a smoker a long ways back) is that it makes you lie to yourself, or rationalize. Like my oldest brother said, just a few years before dying of lung cancer, that old so-and-so was 80-something and still smoked. Sure, they were still alive, but that person was lucky, had great genes, or something, while several others had most likely fallen by the wayside long before old so-and-so. Such as my brother at 56.

Specializes in Geriatrics, Dialysis.

I am a smoker. About 1/3 of the staff at work are smokers. Our company has a no smoking on property rule which is ignored by residents at our administrators blessing. Residents have a smoking area not far from the back door. The company allowed this because we are the only LTC that still allows smoking on property for residents so we get all the smoking admissions, the owners see the dollar signs and don't enforce their own no smoking policy. Staff has to go off property which is deemed to be right behind the garage, about 50 feet from the back door so it's not exactly a hardship. Maybe those policies would be more strictly enforced if we didn't have so many employees [including 2/3 the management] that smoke.

As I said I smoke. I don't smoke around people that are bothered by it, I always go to the designated smoking areas where my smoking won't bother those around me. I don't smoke in non-smoking places. I don't leave cigarette butts on the ground, that drives me crazy! I also don't apologize for being a smoker. It's not illegal, yet.

I find it much easier to have compassion when I'm not personally affected. When someone smells so bad I get an instant headache it is no different from any other kind of offensive body odour. The same people wouldn't dream of going out without having showered recently or skip their antiperspirant.

Back when restaurants used to ask you "Smoking or non?" if I was with a smoker they ALWAYS promptly answered "Smoking". No one ever opted for non-smoking for my benefit or even asked me if I minded. I found that kind of arrogance off-putting, no different from constantly needing me to cover their patients for their frequent breaks. When I have to listen to someone loudly ranting about anti-smoking policies "because it's none of anyone's business if I smoke!" I can only shake my head.

Compassion works both ways. I can have a lot more compassion for someone's struggle with addiction when they show a modicum of awareness of how they affect others.

This. I find very few smokers that have any compassion themselves. The smell of cigarette smoke makes me physically ill, yet no smoker seems to care that they reek of it in public. I get to the point where I sometimes can't go into patient rooms due to family members smelling so awful. I'm expected to suck it up and somehow not be bothered by it.

So no, I don't have a whole lot of compassion. And I won't until smokers realize how much they affect everyone else. Do we ask for compassion for anti vaxxers? No. Because their actions affect the well being of others. Same with smoking.

I know it's an addiction. And that it's a huge struggle to quit. But there are plenty of other ways to get a nicotine fix.

Is it okay if they sneak to take breaks and don't tell anyone their leaving in addition to their regular breaks?

Specializes in Geriatrics w/rehab, LTC, hospice patient.
Is it okay if they sneak to take breaks and don't tell anyone their leaving in addition to their regular breaks?

No, no, no! But it happens and it's very annoying. Why does their addiction allow them more breaks than me?

Specializes in Geriatrics w/rehab, LTC, hospice patient.
Whatever do you do when you have the patient room with visitors who reek of smoke?

I'm typically not in any one patient's room too long to have any of those types of visitors bother me. If it does bother me, and there are no immediate needs the patient has, I excuse myself from the room.

Specializes in Private Duty Pediatrics.
I find it much easier to have compassion when I'm not personally affected. When someone smells so bad I get an instant headache it is no different from any other kind of offensive body odour. The same people wouldn't dream of going out without having showered recently or skip their antiperspirant.

Back when restaurants used to ask you "Smoking or non?" if I was with a smoker they ALWAYS promptly answered "Smoking". No one ever opted for non-smoking for my benefit or even asked me if I minded. I found that kind of arrogance off-putting, no different from constantly needing me to cover their patients for their frequent breaks. When I have to listen to someone loudly ranting about anti-smoking policies "because it's none of anyone's business if I smoke!" I can only shake my head.

Compassion works both ways. I can have a lot more compassion for someone's struggle with addiction when they show a modicum of awareness of how they affect others.

Nonsmoking areas in the restaurants could be compared to "non-peeing" areas in a swimming pool. It's the same logic. To a smoker, the air in the nonsmoking section probably smelled clean, but nonsmokers knew better.