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I am seeing SO many repeat threads here, so I thought I'd throw in a few words of wisdom.
Question: Is nursing for me?
Answer: No one can answer that but you. As with every job out there, nursing has its pros and cons. To answer concisely, if poop, puke, pee, catheters, blood, ostomy spillage, gaping oozing wounds down to the bone, or pus make you squeamish then the answer is no, nursing is probably not for you. Anything else you're just going have to work out in your head, heart, and your own state laws. We don't know you or your history, and i think I can safely say no one here can read souls to find out your true destiny.
Question: Should I move on from XYZ job?
Answer: No one can answer that but you. If you've given it enough thought to post about it on a nursing forum, you're probably ready to move on. If you're burnt out, exhausted, overworked, underpaid, underbenefitted, your nurse/patient ratio sucks, your managers suck, your coworkers suck, your commute sucks, or any combination of the above, then yes, you're probably ready for a new job. Be forewarned though, you sometimes go from the frying pan to the fire. No matter what field or hospital you move to, you're probably going to find at least one of the above things suck. If they all suck, run, don't walk.
Question: I have XYZ medical problem, advice please?
Answer: The answer is we have no advice. NO MEDICAL ADVICE CAN BE GIVEN HERE. EVER. NO MATTER HOW NICELY YOU ASK OR HOW STRANGE YOUR PROBLEM IS!
Question: What is a day in the life of a nurse like?
Answer: Shadow one in a position you're interested in. Every nursing job is vastly different, even from facility to facility. The only truly good way to experience a day in the life of a nurse is to witness it firsthand. Don't forget your rollerskates.
Question: Can you help me with XYZ nursing assignment?
Answer: Only if it's something you can't look up yourself, like an interview. Being on this forum is usually a way to decompress for nurses, and the last thing we want to do after an 8-12-16-20:uhoh3: hour shift is relive the glory days of nursing school by doing homework.
Question: What should I wear for an interview?
Answer: If we really need to answer this then you may need to go back to either Nursing101 or your professional role transition course. Also, just because it's usually the next question to follow, yes, send the damn thank you card.
Question: Why is XYZ nursing job superior to XYZ nursing job?
Answer: No job is superior to any other job. Nursing is comprised of many different fields, all with its own unique set of challenges, whether it's high nurse/patient ratios or vast amounts of paperwork. Anyone who think their field is harder than someone else's is usually playing the "mine is bigger than yours' game.
Question: What is the difference between an LPN/LVN/RN/NP/PA/MD/DO/PHD/BLAH BLAH BLAH? Followed by, which one should I become?
Answer: Do a search and stop asking this question. Only you can decide what profession is right for you, and you're on a nursing forum so take a wild guess what the majority of the answers are going to be?
Question: Is XYZ out of my scope of practice:
Answer: Check your facility and state policies. Every place is different. What one facility encourages may be completely prohibited by another.
Question: Is it okay that I never get a lunch, don't get paid for my overtime, work short-staffed to a dangerous capacity every shift, my manager treats me like crap, or that I get written up for arbitrary things because my hospital is in the process of converting to a hotel?
Answer: No. See question/answer #2.
Question: Does a new grad belong in the ED/ICU/PACU/OTHER CRITICAL CARE AREA, or is it better to start out in med-surg first?
Answer: You might as well ask if the chicken or the egg came first. It's six to one, half a dozen to the other. You're never going to get a uniform answer on this so just make the choice you feel is best for you and your career.
Question: What's your IQ?
Answer: Really?!
"I am a new nurse (2 whole months now) and I feel so stuck in the area i am in. So, am I truly doomed? I mean, come on- I paid alot for my college (or at least my parents did) and I am a nurse of 2 months. I DESERVE to work in the best hospital- of course no holidays or weekends- because, you know I do have a life. Maybe these old bag used-up nurses with 10+ years expereince really should retire. Afterall- they were in nursing so long ago. It should be MY turn now. Besides, I am younger, cuter, thin and ever so smart. But please no weekends or holidays- I do have a social life you know....
I've got an ethical question that I need an answer to tonight:PLEASE COMPARE AND CONTRASTS THE ATTITUDES OF NURSES IN DIFFERENT SPECIALTIES.
PLEASE PROVIDE SPECIFIC EXAMPLES AND CITATIONS WHERE APPROPRIATE.
But only after you explain each specialty and subspecialty, explain the amount of training it takes to go into each specialty and give examples of where that training may be found. Then please give the starting salary for each specialty according to the location in the country. Finally, please cite the average IQ for each nurse in every said specialty.....thank you.
Hello all you wonderful nurses!!!!!
I am in my last semester of ns. I managed 2 screw up this semester and failed two classes....I almost passed, but the darned teachers wouldn't give me the couple of points I needed:crying2: . I still very much want to be a nurse, I have 2 right a letter requesting to stay in the program. Does anyone have any ideas, or suggestions on what I need or should say? There is nothing I want more than to be a nurse!!!!!!
Please help me!!!!! I have much $ out in student loans. Do u think it would b ok 2 use the same letter I used when I was kicked out of the BSN program????
Maybe i should get my gf 2 right the letter for me. she's really good with words and stuff.:heartbeat And she's really smart 2! She passed ns on her first try!!!!!
"I am a new nurse (2 whole months now) and I feel so stuck in the area i am in. So, am I truly doomed? I mean, come on- I paid alot for my college (or at least my parents did) and I am a nurse of 2 months. I DESERVE to work in the best hospital- of course no holidays or weekends- because, you know I do have a life. Maybe these old bag used-up nurses with 10+ years expereince really should retire. Afterall- they were in nursing so long ago. It should be MY turn now. Besides, I am younger, cuter, thin and ever so smart. But please no weekends or holidays- I do have a social life you know....
I work with 2 young nurses that whine about EVERY SINGLE weekend and holiday they have to work. It's like, "Ummm, everyone else has to work them to! You're not special!"
Maybe if all of us old ugly nurses would just stay to work weekends and holidays. After all, we're so old and ugly that we don't have social lives... :)
I just got my dream job and everything was good when i was orienting on days but now they want me to work night shift and i worked my first one last night. Now I'm really tired and I don't think I can work nightshift because after just one shift I'm sooooooo tired. And besides everyone at night is soooo mean to me because I told them that they were doing everything wrong and I was just giving them the information because I just learned in nursing school that you're supposed to do things right and I don't understand why they just won't listen to me and I think I'm going to tell my manager that my preceptor is just so mean and that I can't work nights because I'm afraid that I'll get circles under my eyes and gain weight and I can't do that and besides they have a position open on dayshift that they said they were going to give to that old cow on nightshift but she's been doing nights for years and obviously she can do nights but I can't do nights so my manager will let me do days because obviously I tried to do nights and besides they scheduled me for friday night and I can't work friday night anyway because my boyfriend likes to take me to a movie on friday night so I obviously will have to not work on friday night and what do u think?
Well I have the preceptor from hell.... she is so bad that she told me my red-camo-style thong showed through my hip hugger white scrubs. She is so jealous!
I mean so what if I spilled some of that saline flush on my pants and they went all see through.... WHAT WAS SHE LOOKING AT MY (admittedly very pretty) BUTT FOR ANYWAY???!!!
netglow, ASN, RN
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and I was the only one who showed true appreciation of your intellect on that post.