Very Concerned.........

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OK Siblings...need your prayers and positive thoughts sent this way.

My best friend and her hubby were planning to join us in a "get away" weekend this coming Saturday... anywhere.. just to get away somewhere before cold weather arrives for real. Were still working out the plans, so I emailed her last night to see what the latest options were.

She informed me she had been home "sick" for most of the week. Now she is NOT the "sickly" type... like me, she is the perpetual energizer bunny.

Said she had been back and forth to the cardiologist all week...was having bigeminal and trigeminal PVCs. Hit her from out of the blue...never had any cardiac issues in the past. She's in her early to mid forties. Said they put her on cardiac meds BID and did the echogram,and all sorts of other tests... were following up. Said she was feeling pretty decent now and was going back to work this Monday.

I emailed her back and told her I'd like to stop by this AM and visit with her.. just got an email now saying she is on her way to the ER... was woken up out of her sleep with severe nausea, "heartburn", and pain in her left shoulder.. that her heart was skipping madly....she checked her BP and it was only 70/32 .

Now I'm not one to wallow in worry.. not my style. However, I am very concerned and need some hugs and warm thoughts here, guys.

She's my best friend...the one true friend I have here. It's not easy making friends when you're not a "local" in these parts. While everyone is nice and "friendly", you're still considered an "outsider". Ppl here already have solid friendships from childhood on, and it's difficult forming new friendships when you wern't born and raised in the area... add to that the age factor.. the older you get, the harder it is to form new and lasting friendships.

But Jayne and I hit it off right from the get-go. We're so much alike, it's amazing ! We even look alike ! (except she's blond, with a loose cury bob instead of a dark, straight bob). We're both live wires, love to laugh and be annoyingly silly and get ourselves into trouble any chance we get. Our hearts and passions are the same. In little over a year, we have become best buds.

It was she who took me under her wing when I was preparing for my big "make it or break it" clincal exams and offered me the opportunity to shadow her for about 6 weeks at her hospital on her medsurge unit... which I did. She was a great coach and supporter, and filled me with encouragement and confidence.

She was also to be my preceptor in the near future as I had applied to her hosp. to work some PRN there as soon as I receive my NC licence... hopefully this week. We were both so excited about having the opportunity to work together now and then !

My heart is heavy right now as I await more news. Don't want to go to the ER as I'm sure her hubby would like to be with her by himself.. and they have probably called their youngest dtr. who is in nursing school several hours down the road in NC.

Their other daughter is in Taiwan.. doing a teacher's exchange program there for a year. Jayne had just gotten her passport and all her rounds of injections to fly over there next month to visit her. She was soooo excited... Now perhaps not.

Sorry this is so long... it helps to write it all out. :o

Thanx for listening.

jnette, hope everything works out okay for your friend. Just read the Parade magazine this morning about Bill O'Reilly and his article on true friendship. More valuable than gold. Keep us posted.

Specializes in Hemodialysis, Home Health.

Thanx, everbody...

haven't heard a word yet. I called the house but only got the anwering machine. Sent an email in case they get back after I go to bed (early, as I rise early) and hopefully I'll have SOME info in my mailbox in the morning....I'll check it before I leave out for work. Will keep you posted. Thank you again for your best wishes.

Specializes in Med-Surg, Trauma, Ortho, Neuro, Cardiac.

((((((jnette)))))

Best wishes and sleep well.

Specializes in Hemodialysis, Home Health.
Originally posted by 3rdShiftGuy

((((((jnette)))))

Best wishes and sleep well.

Thanx, Tweets. Now that the sun is setting and I've still not heard, it won't be easy falling asleep not knowing if she's alright.

Must and can only hope and pray for the best... Surely I'll know something by morning.

Specializes in Everything except surgery.

(((((((((((Jnette)))))))))))) Sending prayers up now, and will continue to keep sending prayers up until you hear the good news soon:kiss! I'm also sending one up for your peace of mind and a restfull sleep:cool:

Hang in there j, prayers are powerful things!!!

Specializes in MS Home Health.

Jnette I hope your friend is okay. Hugs and prayers,

renerian

Specializes in ORTHOPAEDICS-CERTIFIED SINCE 89.

Prayers her way. Keep us posted please.

Hoping for the best and sending lots of prayers to you and your friend, as well as her family.

Specializes in Community Health Nurse.
Originally posted by jnette

OK Siblings...need your prayers and positive thoughts sent this way...................Now I'm not one to wallow in worry...not my style. However, I am very concerned and need some hugs and warm thoughts here, guys.

She's my best friend...the one true friend I have here......................Sorry this is so long... it helps to write it all out. :o

Thanx for listening.

(((((((((Big Warm Hugs Jnette)))))))))) My prayers are with your friend and her family, and also with you tonight. If I were you, I would still go to the hospital if only to be with the family in their time of need, and also to physically touch your friend and talk with her. I'm sure your presence would be greatly appreciated by your friend and her family. Let us know how she does. :kiss

Specializes in Alzheimer's, Geriatrics, Chem. Dep..
Originally posted by jnette

OK Siblings...need your prayers and positive thoughts sent this way.

All I can say is

{{{{{{{{{{Jnette}}}}}}}}}}}}

I can only imagine.

(((hugs)))

Prayers to you and your friend...hope all comes out well.

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