Ugh!!!! Getting the dreaded phone call!

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Specializes in ER, TRAUMA, MED-SURG.

I knew my weekend had been too quiet, just kind of had that feeling, "What's going to happen?! So, of course by Saturday, my phone started ringing, My cell and our home. As soon as I checked the messages, I got that sinking feeling. I got a call from my younger brother, who I don't get along with as well as I should, I guess. He started drinking and drugging at about age 14. Now he is 35 and does not hold a job for more than 2 months at a time. My dad is codependent and gives him money. He is bipolar and doesn't take his meds as prescribed.

So, back to the point, I had a message that my father, who is in his 70's, was in the hospital and had "a big hematoma", and had "been confused". So, I call the nurses station to do a little digging. I am 5 - 6 hours away, and that doesn't help. I finally find out that the hematoma was on his knee, instead of the one I imagined as a subdural or something. He had fallen while in the yard. He started bleeding r/t his Coumadin doses.

Of course, he has the "usual" history - hx of MI, A fib, DM. That never helps, but I am glad it wasn't worse. I would appreciate any prayers you guys may be able to share with me!

Thank you to my allnurses family -

Anne, RNC :paw::paw::paw::saint:

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Specializes in Assisted Living Nurse Manager.

Sorry to hear about your dad. Hope things go well and he has a quick recovery.

Sending prayers your way!!!!!

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Specializes in Med/Surge, Psych, LTC, Home Health.

Sorry to hear about your dad. Sending my thoughts and blessings your way.

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Specializes in ICU.

my prayers are with you and your family:icon_hug:

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Specializes in ccu cardiovascular.

I'm so glad it was not worse, hope dad gets better soon.

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Specializes in LTC, assisted living, med-surg, psych.

Prayers going out for you and your family.

((((((((Anne))))))))

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As always prayers for those in need and their families!

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Specializes in uro/gyn and orthopedics.

Sorry about your dad, glad it wasn't worse! I wish you all the best.

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Prayers being sent your way.......:heartbeat:redpinkhe:redbeathe

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i am sorry to hear about your dad. i wish him a fast recovery back to good health and your family will be in my thoughts.

take care.

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Specializes in district nurse, ccu, geriatric.

I am very close to my dad so I can imagine the thoughts that would have gone through your mind. Glad for you it was not as serious as first thought and best wishes to you and your dad

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Prayers and huggs your way!!!!!! Take care...!!!!

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