The Nurse's Role in Providing Spiritual Care - Is It OK to Pray?

There has been recent discussion in one of the allnurses threads about a nurse in the UK who was placed on suspension for offering to pray with a patient. In this instance, the nurse only offered to pray. She reportedly did not follow through with prayer when the patient declined her offer. In this instance, we only know what was written. We can only guess what the entire story might be. Nurses Spirituality Article

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This brought up much discussion about whether or not offering prayer falls within the scope of the nurse while providing spiritual care.

Is it appropriate for nurses or doctors to pray with patients?

Should a nurse ever offer to pray with a patient without a specific request from the patient or the family? How can a nurse appropriately provide spiritual care? or should that aspect of care be left to the chaplain?

In the United States, Joint Commission on Accreditation of Healthcare Organizations (JCAHP) requires that a spiritual assessment be completed on every patient. Because nurses work closely with the sick and dying, they often find themselves called upon to address a patient's spiritual needs. At the same time, they may be concerned about the appropriateness of such activities, as well as have questions on how to proceed. Although not all nurses feel comfortable providing spiritual care in all situations, they should be sensitive to the spiritual needs of their patients.

Many nurses feel both comfortable and confident in engaging in spiritual care activities such as praying with patients and listening to spiritual concerns.

These activities may be appropriately carried out by the nurse only if acceptable to the patient and the family. In order to provide respectful care, it is necessary to refrain from using the clinical setting or professional authority to promote any type of religion or particular spiritual practices.

It is not appropriate to pray aloud with/for every patient without patient request. Depending on the situation and the relationship the nurse has established with the patient, it may be appropriate to offer prayer. However, it is important to be attuned to the patient's already established spirituality. The clinical setting is not the place for proselytising, nor does the health care professional role properly include such activity.

When a patient is faced with a health crisis, he or she may seek spiritual nourishment, even if this has not been a typical part of the person's day-to-day life. Patients who are members of a particular faith tradition, and those who are not, may want prayer or other forms of spiritual activities to be part of the care they receive from health care professionals. Or they may not. Either way, health care professionals who want to provide spiritually nurturing and ethically sensitive care need to think carefully about the place of spiritual care in professional service.

Chaplains should not be the only providers of spiritual care for patients and their families. Much of the spiritual and religious support comes from other people, including parish nurses, clergy, family and friends of patients, volunteers representing different faith communities or congregations, and others. Although their personal spiritual beliefs may differ from those of the patient, medical staff can also address the spiritual needs of the patient. All medical personnel (believers and non-believers alike) must not let their personal beliefs get in the way of providing quality care for all of the patient's needs.....including spiritual needs.

Specializes in Med Surg - Renal.
conscientiousnurse said:
Or, what if the nurse waited till her lunch break or after she clocked out for the day, and came back to fulfill this request on his/her own time?

Seriously? What do you think would happen?

It is completely inappropriate to do something like this.

Arranging appropriate spiritual care is not "jumping through political hoops" any more than arranging Social Work, PT/OT, Chem Dep, or any number of other services is.

As for the other items you mention, I have a very strong feeling that if the patient's request for spiritual treatment were not specifically of the Christian faith, you would not be so eager to render such heroic measures.

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Maybe I made too big of a deal about it. In most cases, there would be time for a chaplain or clergy man to get there. But some nurses may feel comfortable going ahead and helping the person pray since they did ask, and I wouldn't blame such a nurse.

I admit that if it weren't of the Christian faith, I wouldn't be so eager to render such heroic measures and put my job on the line. I would simply contact the chaplain probably; if it wasn't my faith, I wouldn't be too comfortable praying with the person anyway and the chaplain would do a better job. It is true that my own beliefs influence how I would react in this case.

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conscientiousnurse said:
Maybe I made too big of a deal about it. In most cases, there would be time for a chaplain or clergy man to get there. But some nurses may feel comfortable going ahead and helping the person pray since they did ask, and I wouldn't blame such a nurse.

I admit that if it weren't of the Christian faith, I wouldn't be so eager to render such heroic measures and put my job on the line. I would simply contact the chaplain probably; if it wasn't my faith, I wouldn't be too comfortable praying with the person anyway and the chaplain would do a better job. It is true that my own beliefs influence how I would react in this case.

What you wrote makes me sad, even though you were being honest. I am not a believer in any gods, but I would be happy to hold someone's hand, of ANY faith, while they prayed. I would also be quite happy to call a chaplain if preferred. I have found christianity/christians to be very cliquish.

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skyegirl said:
I have found christianity/christians to be very cliquish.

No more than others in my experience. Ingroup/outgroup dynamics drive a lot of behaviors. Heck without that feature there probably wouldn't even be religions!

Imagine...

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I think it's okay to offer to pray, if it's soft-pedaled, like "Some people find comfort in prayer. I can pray with you if you like." If they refuse, then drop it.

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Hi tn!. . . I think it's very important to meet the spiritual needs. I have little experience in the field of nursing because I just graduated. Placements are my only experience) but during my studies I am interested in this subject. I wrote a thesis entitled "To believe, do, hope: the view of nursing in relation to the hopelessness".

After a review of the literature, I realized that there are many interventions that nurses can implement to improve the spiritual well-being and give them positive input to continue to take care of themselves and their projects. Between these interventions was the prayer. Write a letter to someone, do an "About me collection" (keep a box with significant personal objects: photos, a diary...

In short, the nurses can do so much! The important thing is not posing limits and point to the quality of the nursing, and the principal result must be the welfare of the person and the achievement of all his needs: the needs of body, mind, and soul!

Sorry for my English, I'm Italian and I have to perfect it yet.

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Welcome to the site pam101 and thanks for your post. No need to apologize.......your English is fine!!

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bethygean said:
I know what's "politically correct", but when you are in the Christian faith there is no such thing. Being a Christian effects everything you do and is appropriate in every situation, even in a work place. If you truly know God then you'll know that He's not something you can just leave out of certain "inconvenient" times in your life. Sure, you can't force a patient to pray with you but it is appropriate to ask, whether or not you think the person will accept. If they don't then all you can do is pray silently and go on, but as a Christian, the least you can do is offer hope to someone who is in desperate need of it.

Political incorrectness only applies when two parties are equal at certain aspects. When I am sick and you are healthy, you have to be political correct with me.

My mother is a faithful Buddhist while I believe in a higher power. Neither of us are Christians. Thank you for bringing up this issue. I have never thought about this. Now I know that nurses can be fundamentalists, too. When my mom is in a nursing home some day, I will make sure that no Christian, Muslim, Jewish, Hindu, Sikh's beliefs are imposed on her. I will not cause trouble to a nurse who offers her a non Buddhist prayer, but I won't let my mother stay in that place. This is absolutely unacceptable.

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bethygean said:
Sure, you can't force a patient to pray with you but it is appropriate to ask, whether or not you think the person will accept. If they don't then all you can do is pray silently and go on, but as a Christian, the least you can do is offer hope to someone who is in desperate need of it.

A lot of people, including a lot of healthcare employers, would disagree with you about that. You're not at work to foist your beliefs on vulnerable, ill people.

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bethygean said:
I know what's "politically correct", but when you are in the Christian faith there is no such thing. Being a Christian effects everything you do and is appropriate in every situation, even in a work place. If you truly know God then you'll know that He's not something you can just leave out of certain "inconvenient" times in your life. Sure, you can't force a patient to pray with you but it is appropriate to ask, whether or not you think the person will accept. If they don't then all you can do is pray silently and go on, but as a Christian, the least you can do is offer hope to someone who is in desperate need of it.

Why can you not pray silently?

Why does the patient need to know at all that you are praying for them?

It strikes me that offering to pray for a patient is more about the nurse having their ego stroked, so people can go 'look at them, arent they sooo spiritual" than actually meeting the spiritual needs of the person.

I have no problems quitely standing with a patient while they pray if it gives them some comfort. Because its not about me, its about my patient and ensuring their needs are met as much as possible.

I'm somewhat areligous. If the patient wanted more than that I would have to say "hey, I'm probably not the right person to help you with that, let me find out who the chaplains are and call someone for you" or "do you have a priest or a pastor I can call for you

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Specializes in Psych.

As an atheist, it would be dishonest and disingenuous of me to pretend to believe or pray. I'm happy to be of support, listen to a pts beliefs without judgment, provide encouragement or peace where appropriate, but I will not insult either of us by faking something in which I don't believe.

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I feel like there is a BIG difference between praying with someone if they ask you to and OFFERING to pray for/with someone. I don't feel like it's appropriate to offer to pray for someone but I would pray with someone if they asked me to.

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