Respect from patients as a Registered Nurse?

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I've read many comments on this board about how nurses are often treated disrespectfully, and as a soon-to-be nursing student this has been on my mind a lot lately. I used to think that it was 1 patient in 100 that might be a bit rude but given some posts around here, it seems like it may be more common than I think.

I've been working as a technologist for 2 years and I've never felt disrespected by my patients nor by my employer. I had a patient yesterday who is an RN. I mentioned that I was going to become an RN too and that I have a lot of respect and admiration for nurses. She basically told me not to go into nursing expecting to be treated with respect, and that I should definitely become an NP if I go down the nursing route.

In general, how respected do you feel at work? What kind of setting do you work in? Any insight would be appreciated!

Specializes in Emergency.

ER. I honestly don't care what other people think or whether they "respect" me. I try to be the best nurse that I can be & other people's (i.e., customers/management) thoughts about me ain't not never high on my priority list.

Yeah, worked a triple negative in there.

Specializes in Case mgmt., rehab, (CRRN), LTC & psych.

I can only speak for myself and my place of employment. I work at a specialty hospital where nurses are not highly valued. This is mostly due to the fact that we cannot charge for the services we render.

Most of the other healthcare professions in the hospital (medicine, respiratory therapy, speech language pathology, physical therapy, occupational therapy, etc) are valued because the services they provide generate revenue for the hospital in the form of billable charges. Nursing, on the other hand, is viewed as a drain to the hospital's budget because we do not generate billable charges.

Specializes in Family Nurse Practitioner.

Overall I place more value on income and enjoying my job than I do feeling respected. I was proud to be a floor nurse and a bonus is I did feel respected for the most part. In psychiatry the patients who weren't respectful were usually the ones too sick to be able to control their behavior or withdrawing. In either event I didn't take it seriously. Most docs, techs and fellow RNs were fun to work with. I made a good living, felt respected and enjoyed my job. As a NP its similar. Overall I feel respected, the patients are mostly the same, Docs I work with have been amazing and of course my nurses love me cause I've been there, done that. ;)

If I had to do it over as a young person I would definitely go to medical school but thats just with the benefit of hindsight.

Specializes in ER.

I feel that I'm respected, appreciated, and admired.

Specializes in Critical Care; Recovery.

I work Icu. Typically I'm well respected though not always. Every patient and every family member is different, and you will always have that one that totally disrespects you. Admittedly, I have more problems with family members than I do with the patients themselves. Family members show up during the visitation times and act as though we haven't been doing enough for their family member or that we don't know how to do our job. The typical patient that I'm familiar with that can get on your nerves is the drug seeker who is mad that they can't get their q 2 hour prn dilaudid early, lol. Overall I feel respected though. You have to look at the attitude of the nurse too sometimes. For example, I know nurses that have abrasive and argumentative attitudes. Sometimes the wrong attitude can provoke the disrespect.

Specializes in SICU, trauma, neuro.

I feel respected/appreciated more often than not. For every one that expects to be treated like they're at the County Hilton, there are probably 50 that express heartfelt thanks and/or give us candy. :laugh:

Specializes in Behavioral Health.
I can only speak for myself and my place of employment. I work at a specialty hospital where nurses are not highly valued. This is mostly due to the fact that we cannot charge for the services we render.

I've heard this argument, that nursing isn't respected within medicine because we're billed as part of the room fee, alongside the food and linen. I guess from a management perspective it makes sense... I wonder how you'd bill for eight hours of care. How about a per-call-light fee? :)

Home Health. Patients and families show a great deal of appreciation, providers and their staff, have upped their courtesy and communication in recent years to the point of remarkable, my managers are great and my employer treats us well.

Most of the other healthcare professions in the hospital (medicine, respiratory therapy, speech language pathology, physical therapy, occupational therapy, etc) are valued because the services they provide generate revenue for the hospital in the form of billable charges. Nursing, on the other hand, is viewed as a drain to the hospital's budget because we do not generate billable charges.

This is an interesting perspective that I hadn't considered before. I thought about applying to the programs you mentioned but chose a second-entry nursing program because there seemed to be the most job opportunities (and growth opportunities) in that area. I didn't consider that nurses may be viewed as less valuable by hospital admin than those other professionals.

Home Health. Patients and families show a great deal of appreciation, providers and their staff, have upped their courtesy and communication in recent years to the point of remarkable, my managers are great and my employer treats us well.

This sounds like the kind of work environment I'd like to have. I'm going to look into this :)

Specializes in Pediatrics, Emergency, Trauma.
ER. I honestly don't care what other people think or whether they "respect" me. I try to be the best nurse that I can be & other people's (i.e., customers/management) thoughts about me ain't not never high on my priority list.

This.

Although I have been on the receiving end of complements as well as witnessed nurses get "Thank You" noted on paper towels lately, I think nurses are respected in the ED, for the most part. :D

Specializes in Family Nurse Practitioner.

I work in the ER as well. From your typical not drunk/high/psych patient I would say that nurses are respected most of the time. Of course there are always your special cases. There are rude people everywhere. Truly, I do not personalize 99.5% of what any of my patients say to me.

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