Racism is still a part of nursing just as it is in society in general. And it is still hard to talk about. But by sharing with one another, maybe we can gain new insights. Let's listen and learn.
Hope is invented every day. - James Baldwin
Nurses on the non-caucasian spectrum of melanin content in their skin can tell you—if you ask. In this Summer of upheaval, we hear the headlines every day: Black lives matter, economic and racial inequities in COVID-19 care, police brutality, health care workers marching for justice for all, discrimination against immigrants—the list of troubles is long and complex. In all this turmoil, we want to make sure that we listen carefully, as nurses, to the stories our co-workers tell about their own experiences, because facts inform, but stories inspire.
I am a white, middle-aged nurse. I feel uncomfortable writing an article about racism experienced by my non-caucasian colleagues, but I would like to start a respectful conversation on this forum. I would like to hear your personal stories of times when you feel you might have been discriminated against because of the color of your skin.
I have been reading Ijeoma Oluo’s book, So You Want to Talk about Race? And, it’s hard stuff. No one enters the waters of a race discussion well. We all bring mounds of baggage to the table with us. We speak from our own limited perspective and we often lack the humility to truly listen to the people around us as they share their frustration and anger about how they are treated simply because of the color of their skin. We have a hard time allowing people who have suffered discrimination for years to tell their stories. We react sometimes by being defensive, by denying their emotional response, by walking away, even by closing down.
Oluo introduces the discussion about racism by telling a story of someone walking down the street, being repeatedly hit on the arm by passersby. The victim can’t leave. They don’t have the option of walking another way and are forced to suffer the pain and discomfort each time. Finally, someone, gesticulating wildly, hits his/her arm one more time, and it is the last straw. The victim lashes out angrily. The person gesticulating reacts defensively, of course, since they meant no harm. But the harm was already done many times over and the response was a spilling out of pent up rage, anguish, and pain. Her story spoke to me, because it is hard for us to listen well, to hear uncomfortable stories, especially when they come coated in a long history of abuse, discrimination, suffering—generations of it, really. We may not be the immediate cause, but by golly, being white, we are certainly part of the system that created the injustice to start out with.
As a white, American nurse, I have benefitted, all my life, from white privilege, even though I have been largely unaware of it. The easements along the way may be small things, but in the scheme of life, they count.
“White people become more likely to move through the world with an expectation that their needs be readily met.”1
The system that perpetuates discriminatory behavior toward non-Caucasians, in general, and Blacks, specifically, has produced rotten fruit. The deaths of many innocents—Ahmaud Arbery, Breonna Taylor, George Floyd—have recently revealed anew the true danger of being Black in this country. Those dangers and disadvantages exist in the nursing community, as well. “Two studies examining racial/ethnic bias in RN promotions (Hagey 2001; Seago and Spetz 2005) found evidence of discriminatory practices that limited advancement opportunities for minority RNs."2
The systemic problems that lead to discriminatory practices in nursing are not going away overnight. Sadly, they are a product of lives lived in a system that perpetuates white wealth and advancement to the detriment of others. Changes will require a concerted effort on all our parts—especially in the white community—to be aware of inequities and do our best to put action behind our words of solidarity. Yes, we must pass laws, train and re-train, but we also must live awake and alert, watching for those unconscious biases that frame these differences from the beginning. We must find ways to learn more and to listen better. When our co-workers speak up, let’s believe them and not discount their stories of injustice. Let’s be careful of how we talk, the things we say casually, the hurtful putdowns that slide out unaware. Let’s pursue ways to help each other succeed because it is truly in our mutual success that we find the fulfillment we seek.
We can have the hope that James Baldwin assures us of in the quote at the top, but we must also let go of complacency, ignorance, and white privilege in nursing, while continuing the difficult conversations.
Maybe some of you can share your stories below. Let’s share and support one another respectfully as we try to come to a better place together in this anti-racism journey.
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2 hours ago, kaylee. said:The idea of colonization proposed that instead of integrating freed slaves into American society, they would be better off if relocated to Africa where they could pursue a life free from the prejudice they would indefinitely face living in America.
Your comment was:
“Africa should be built up in a way that if blk people didn't want to deal with racism, they should have the option of living equally nice in Africa”.
To suggest that if Blacks don’t want to deal with racism they can just leave is much more disturbing when suggested in 2021.
I never said colonization is the answer. It can be done without it, along with issues in the black communities and management of it, if the people want to do it on their own. It's called personal responsibility. The idea that racism is stopping a group of people in 2021 is the problem and also that all white people are racist towards black people. The other point is that black people have options to live where they want to. Some black people are in fact moving to Africa because they said they don't feel black there etc. They have been making headway with how they want to live there versus here. Racism is everywhere but you are less likely to deal with it there as a black person. Racism is not an excuse to not improve black peoples lot here in the US and it is being used as a crutch which is having devastating results. Either do what you can here or ho somewhere else and try to make it work there. I was taught to not use excuses.
On 2/19/2021 at 8:49 AM, sarah george said:there are white people that go through the same thing it's not always about race.
Maam, you are making it like white people are oppressed, you aren't. Please stop. No one said you didn't have to go through anything. The comment was referring to a post about money and race please read above
23 hours ago, Workitinurfava said:I never said colonization is the answer. It can be done without it, along with issues in the black communities and management of it, if the people want to do it on their own. It's called personal responsibility. The idea that racism is stopping a group of people in 2021 is the problem and also that all white people are racist towards black people. The other point is that black people have options to live where they want to. Some black people are in fact moving to Africa because they said they don't feel black there etc. They have been making headway with how they want to live there versus here. Racism is everywhere but you are less likely to deal with it there as a black person. Racism is not an excuse to not improve black peoples lot here in the US and it is being used as a crutch which is having devastating results. Either do what you can here or ho somewhere else and try to make it work there. I was taught to not use excuses.
Black people have no country. No connection to a language or religion. Chatel slavery was the most despicable thing created. Unlike the enslavement of the jews the Africans were stripped from their land, language and religion. The jewish people fared much better because they were able to maintain their faith and culture under Pharaoh. Huge difference that has real consequences. The only group of people in the US without a language religion or defined geographic space. Take a moment to consider the impact that has had compunded for generations m and you'll begin to understand why the American descendants of slaves or so "behind".
11 hours ago, Psychnursehopeful said:Black people have no country. No connection to a language or religion. Chatel slavery was the most despicable thing created. Unlike the enslavement of the jews the Africans were stripped from their land, language and religion. The jewish people fared much better because they were able to maintain their faith and culture under Pharaoh. Huge difference that has real consequences. The only group of people in the US without a language religion or defined geographic space. Take a moment to consider the impact that has had compunded for generations m and you'll begin to understand why the American descendants of slaves or so "behind".
I have already thought about it, .my feelings remain the same.
On 4/16/2021 at 8:07 PM, sarah george said:No one is oppressed because of the color of their skin,blacks and Hispanics get the most help compared to whites and Asians. We have affirmative action laws and Black and Hispanic scholarships. If we have laws and policies to help people of color how are they oppressed?
They are oppressed partially because there still are a lot of people like you who think like you, unfortunately.
The definition of oppression includes “unjust treatment.” You yourself said there are laws and policies to “help people of color,” which wouldn’t be needed if they were treated justly and equally. As a generalization on a systemic level, they aren’t.
Surely you can agree, even if you haven’t experienced it yourself and not making it exclusive to one race, that racism still exists. Racist people still exist. So of course racism in healthcare is real.
On 4/16/2021 at 8:37 PM, JadedCPN said:They are oppressed partially because there still are a lot of people like you who think like you, unfortunately.
The definition of oppression includes “unjust treatment.” You yourself said there are laws and policies to “help people of color,” which wouldn’t be needed if they were treated justly and equally. As a generalization on a systemic level, they aren’t.
Surely you can agree, even if you haven’t experienced it yourself and not making it exclusive to one race, that racism still exists. Racist people still exist. So of course racism in healthcare is real.
Yes I have experienced discrimination because I was white I used to work as a caregiver at two jobs when most of them were minorities and I was picked on for being the white,don't judge a situation you haven't been in. People who think like me? everything I said were facts,
1 minute ago, sarah george said:Yes I have experienced discrimination because I was white I used to work as a caregiver at two jobs when most of them were minorities and I was picked on for being the white,don't judge a situation you haven't been in. People who think like me? everything I said were facts, you're triggered ?
I not once have said you (or anyone specific) haven’t experienced discrimination. I’m sure you have. Not sure what your point is to saying that. Nor why you’d feel the need to say I’m uneducated simply because I’m participating in what should be a respectful discussion about a very important topic, regardless of everyone’s viewpoints.
And I absolutely have no shame in saying that racism and oppression are absolutely a major topic which can be triggering - my husband of over a decade is African American and my nieces and nephews are African American, I have seen many instances of direct and indirect racism, systemic racism, and oppression. I am very aware that my own skin tone affords me the privilege of not having to experience many of those things for myself, but I am not blind to them because those I love still have to deal with it.
As a nurse I've seen little racism amongst coworkers at the hospital. Some patients have been awful though. We had a good mix of staff at the hospital. Many white. black (of many nationalities), indian etc. My DON and nurse manager and assistant manger were black. No issue there. Probably the only thing I noticed was there was a comradery between them and other black nurses. I did not take offense. People of similar cultures tend to flock together. I get it. It did not affect how we worked together though. Same with other nurses of similar backgrounds.
I currently work with majority black staff on night shift. There is one nurse and I that are white. Opposite shift there is one staffer. Total night staff for one shift is about 25 people. I tend to be left out of conversation that really does not pertain to me. Like hair styles and skin care and certain trends. Sometimes I chime in with questions. Sometimes I get asked questions. No negativity but we are different. I am OK with that. There might be talk behind closed doors but for the most part it's good. I accept the differences.
For a little background: I grew up in a small white neighborhood surrounded by black neighborhoods. All upper middle class. I was integrated into a school with majority white along with fellow black students in elementary school. School bus bypassed 3 different elementary schools to get to the "white" school. The 3 elementary schools were good schools too. Not sure why integration took place except to "mix us up". To top it off my family was racist. I was taught that. Took me many years to realize I had a tendency for racism but nothing blatant. Parental teachings have a lasting affect. So I am always working on it. Luckily living in a predominantly black area taught me a lot. Everyone is different, even amongst people of similar traits. Whether it be race, religion or just anything.
Lucky for me my kids benefited from my experience and appreciate everyone and what they bring to the table. Many muslim, black, gay and transgender friends. And they are all welcome in my home. There is hope for our future if my kids are an example.
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The idea of colonization proposed that instead of integrating freed slaves into American society, they would be better off if relocated to Africa where they could pursue a life free from the prejudice they would indefinitely face living in America.
Your comment was:
“Africa should be built up in a way that if blk people didn't want to deal with racism, they should have the option of living equally nice in Africa”.
To suggest that if Blacks don’t want to deal with racism they can just leave is much more disturbing when suggested in 2021.