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I don't mind giving bed baths, wound care, dressing,etc at all.. But when it comes to male perineal care, I hestitate. And I dont mean just washing around the member, its the pulling back of the foreskin and cleaning I can't allways do.:imbar Any one know to overcome this anxiety?
caliber
I'd MUCH rather clean smegma out from under an uncircumsized member than to dig stool out of a lady parts for hours. It's amazing to me how liquid stool seems to flow directly into the ovaries from the labia. Sometimes I wonder if we need one of those pulse irrigation devices to get it all out. Basically, it's a body part, just wash it and get over it. It's no more nasty than gross toe nails or leg ulcers or funky pits.
Randy:uhoh3:
I'd MUCH rather clean smegma out from under an uncircumsized member than to dig stool out of a lady parts for hours. It's amazing to me how liquid stool seems to flow directly into the ovaries from the labia. Sometimes I wonder if we need one of those pulse irrigation devices to get it all out. Basically, it's a body part, just wash it and get over it. It's no more nasty than gross toe nails or leg ulcers or funky pits.Randy:uhoh3:
NO...... stool in lady parts.....that's worse than toe nails and funky pits, for sure :barf01:
OMG... this could be another thread.... what's the grossest thing you've ever seen....
NO...... stool in lady parts.....that's worse than toe nails and funky pits, for sure :barf01:OMG... this could be another thread.... what's the grossest thing you've ever seen....
Already have one: What Is Your Most Gross, Yucky, Disgusting Nursing Horror Story?
I agree with others who pointed out that whenever possible, I suggest patients do their own peri care. Those who are unable to are usually not too upset with me when I do male or female. I let them know what I'm going to do and why it's important, and then just do it.
Earlier this week, I had a male patient who had liquid diarrhea in a diaper that flooded up around the top of his member. Not a fun clean-up job at all. Also had to take care of the stool caked onto a female patient's labia and and foley. While I can't say that it was fun, I have a more zen-like approach to doing this type of care. It's way more humiliating/embarrassing for the patient than it is for me and that if a person can't take care of this basic need, what could be nobler than to be willing to do it for him or her?
I also find that talking to the patient while doing it about something else, like their jobs or former careers, families and places where they live, or whatever helps them to feel more like I see them as a person than a mess to clean.
leslie :-D
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of course i agree.
i'm just sitting here, sipping on my coffee, and wondering, why this has to be explained to other nurses.
sad, yes?
leslie