Nurses Smoking: Compassion Instead of Judgement

In this article the author goes over some of the reasons nurses continue to smoke and urges a compassionate approach with an encouraging touch toward all who struggle with habits that are hard to overcome. Nurses General Nursing Article

My friend excused herself after a long meeting. I knew where she was going - to the cold parking deck, to get in her car, to have a cigarette, to still her craving so she could get back to work and concentrate on her job.

If you have watched any movies about the 1960's lately, you probably realize that many fewer people smoke now than did at that time. In '65, a little over 40% of the population smoked (including large numbers of health care providers!) and now a fewer than 15% do (Center for Disease Control and Prevention)."Recent declines in smoking among health care professionals may reflect the impact of national tobacco control policies and efforts focused on reducing smoking among registered nurses. After little change in prevalence from 2003 to 2006-2007, the drop in smoking among registered nurses was more than twice that of the 13 percent decrease in the population." (Study Examines Prevalence of Smoking Among Health Care Professionals - For The Media - JAMA Network) While there is encouraging news, smoking in the general population and among nurses remains a commonplace occurrence.

Most of us have friends who smoke, nurse friends, co-workers, and others. Smoking or not smoking is a touchy topic and just bringing it up makes people want to go to different sides of the room, flinging hot, angry flaming arrows at one another. While we all have opinions, and those opinions matter, especially in the face of compelling evidence, we do ourselves and others a disservice when we retreat and point fingers at each other. How can we keep reaching out to each other, being patient and compassionate no matter what our particular challenges are?

Bad habits are notably hard to overcome and substance abuse, including addictions to nicotine, can be particularly noisome. For anyone who has any type of bad habit-most of us have at least one-we know how hard it is to overcome. Listing all types of bad habits here will not help us proceed in our conversation for as humans we automatically want to compare our bad habit to smoking and say-"Well, mine isn't THAT bad." Maybe not. But let's all admit that it's pretty hard to compare bad habits and it's even harder to cease a bad habit. Our tendency to look at others' faults with less compassion than we look at our own is pretty universal and sadly also difficult to overcome. Myriad studies have been done on overcoming the compulsion of bad habits and no matter how you look at them, they all say the same thing: giving up a bad habit is hard work and relapsing is as easy as taking a puff or two.

So first, how can we cultivate an attitude of grace and compassion toward members of our profession who continue to struggle with an addiction to nicotine? One thing that might help is to realize that we are all susceptible to the clinging effects of our own vices. Being honest with ourselves and vulnerable to one another, we take the first step in reaching out to a friend who is struggling with support and care instead of judgment and condemnation.

It's hard for people who are not addicted to nicotine to fully understand its effects and the pervasive reach it has throughout smokers' lives: home, travel, work, entertainment-all can be powerful influences in keeping a person tied to their habit.

  1. Long-term smokers may have linkage behaviors or triggers that contribute to the continuation of the habit-things like group smoking, an association between a morning coffee and a cigarette, alcohol, good feelings perceived to be related to smoking, less anxiety, even daily bowel rituals.
  2. The process of withdrawal can be scary for some-especially if they have gone through it before-and lead them to put off the day they quit.
  3. Nicotine increases dopamine levels and produces a temporary feeling of well-being, of less anxiety and of increased concentration, all reinforcing the behavior and keeping smokers coming back for one more. While these perceived benefits are small and time/dose limited, quitting to "normalize" the body's equilibrium can be daunting for some.
  4. Defiance of established norms or expected behavior-For a variety of reasons, people sometimes continue to smoke to defy societal expectations. There are times when society can be perceived as imposing a veritable straitjacket of limitations and guidelines, leading some to throw up their hands and disregard some of the more basic cautionary information, including the tsunami of information about the dangers of nicotine.
  5. Concerns about weight gain- Weight issues may seem to pale in comparison to the side effects of smoking but this is a real concern for many.

With great sadness, a physician friend once pointed out ruefully, "I have had some success in encouraging people from all walks of life to quit-including some nurses. But at other times, I have failed. I wish that more times I had pointed out that the real danger of smoking is not dying, it is actually continuing to live in the face of the limitations that long-term addiction invariably imposes on the human body. In the end, people wish they could die."

Smoking is a bad habit. No doubt about it. But maybe we can find ways to offer each other more compassionate support and less judgment. How can we be a force of encouragement to our peers?

Joy Eastridge

Nope, can't do it...they just stink too much, especially coming back inside from the cold.

Just sayins y'all.

I also wonder how many non-tobacco users think it's okay to drink, be overweight, or use marijuana?

I hear this often when the subject of smoking comes up, and I find it to be a very weak argument.

If a very overweight person eats their Oreos in my presence, I don't gain a pound or have to go on insulin in order to tolerate their presence. If someone has a drink around me, I don't get a little bit drunk. The marijuana smoker? Well, they are also a "smoker," and their habit can also affect me physically just by virtue of being in the same room, just the same as being in a room with a cigarette smoker physically exposes me to their habit. I wouldn't put a marijuana user in a different category if they are smoking it.

Now, we can debate how the costs of obesity affect us all through insurance costs, and people who drink and drive or become violent after drinking can certainly hurt non drinking society, but not everyone who drinks gets drunk, not everyone who has a glass of wine in my vicinity is an alcoholic, etc. ALL SMOKERS who smoke anywhere near other people, however, physically force their habit on anyone in their presence every single time. That's a distinct difference from the others noted in this argument.

Specializes in Specializes in L/D, newborn, GYN, LTC, Dialysis.

I see both sides, but in my heart (as an ex smoker), my understanding falls most on the side of non-smokers affected by the smell of tobacco/cigarette smoke. It does cause bad reactions in some who are sensitive, and what about the poor patient, who can't move away from the smell? THERE is where my compassion lies most.

When I smoked, I went through a ritual of washing hands thoroughly, brushing my teeth, and tossing my hair in the breeze----as well as leaving off my over-jacket when out smoking. I never got a complaint that I smelled, but that does not mean I did not. So I decided to quit smoking at work. I also have compassion for my family, none of whom smoke and yet I stunk to them no matter what I did.

I have great empathy for addicts of all sorts, smokers among them. I have read giving up tobacco is as hard as quitting heroin. That is horribly addictive, for sure........(I was able to quit by slowly disallowing myself to smoke at work, in my car and around my family, in my backyard, and soon there was no good time to smoke for me and I quit). Little by little I weaned myself off that devil tobacco.

I agree with those saying we need to always be mindful of people who are affected; I think we need to understand that there are those severely sickened by the odor/residues --- (including perfumes but that is another thread)-----and remember they can't tolerate it. In the end, compassion for my patients wins out most. They can't get up and walk away cause I stink, nor should they feel they need to.

Specializes in Nursing Professional Development.

I have compassion for the person addicted to nicotine that is very similar to the compassion I have for people who are addicted to other substances -- be they hard drugs, caffeine, food or whatever. I have compassion for them and will support their efforts to free themselves from their addiction.

But I will not be an enabler. If you want to smoke at home, fine -- but don't bring the smoke (and smell) into the workplace where it spreads to others, contaminates clothing, gets into other people's lungs, etc.. Do not take extra breaks so that you are less available that the other staff members to help with the work that needs to be done. Do not smoke in the hospital parking garage or at the building entrance so that people have to walk through your cloud of smoke to get into the building, etc.. Do not litter the ground with your cigarette butts. etc. Smoke if you must, but keep it to yourself.

Specializes in Faith Community Nurse (FCN).
I have compassion for the person addicted to nicotine that is very similar to the compassion I have for people who are addicted to other substances -- be they hard drugs, caffeine, food or whatever. I have compassion for them and will support their efforts to free themselves from their addiction.

But I will not be an enabler. If you want to smoke at home, fine -- but don't bring the smoke (and smell) into the workplace where it spreads to others, contaminates clothing, gets into other people's lungs, etc.. Do not take extra breaks so that you are less available that the other staff members to help with the work that needs to be done. Do not smoke in the hospital parking garage or at the building entrance so that people have to walk through your cloud of smoke to get into the building, etc.. Do not litter the ground with your cigarette butts. etc. Smoke if you must, but keep it to yourself.

Well said. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Having compassion toward others and their struggles--be it smoking or whatever-- is always right and appropriate--being an enabler is not. You make some strong points about where compassion can trail off into enabling behavior. Joy

The high school I attended in the 70's actually had a smoking area for the teenagers, and a 10 minute break in the middle of the day after lunch to go outside and use it. :coffee:

Specializes in Faith Community Nurse (FCN).
The high school I attended in the 70's actually had a smoking area for the teenagers, and a 10 minute break in the middle of the day after lunch to go outside and use it. :coffee:

Yikes! That's just so crazy, isn't it? Hard to believe.

Joy

Specializes in Critical Care; Cardiac; Professional Development.

It is interesting - I am both sympathetic and completely exasperated with smokers. I advocate for nicotine patches for my smoking patients and wish my smoking nurse compatriots would also use them. They would be more pleasant to work with and would need fewer breaks and suffer less due to their addiction while at work.

But I agree with those who point out second-hand smoke has a very real impact on the health of others who aren't choosing to expose their body to those toxins. I get migraines from cigarette smoke and they are so painful and debilitating that it takes more than a day to recover once it finally ends. I also resent smokers feeling entitled to breaks that the rest of us who do not smoke can't/won't take. I also feel compelled to point out that the smoker does not have to be currently smoking or even returning from recently smoking to make me sick from their smell. Most smokers have zero idea how very bad they smell just as a baseline and how much smoke lingers on their person even if they have not lit up for hours. Some even make it worse by trying to cover it up with heavy perfume - the death toll for me with my migraines.

Specializes in Critical Care; Cardiac; Professional Development.
The high school I attended in the 70's actually had a smoking area for the teenagers, and a 10 minute break in the middle of the day after lunch to go outside and use it. :coffee:

I graduated in 1988. There was a smoking area for the students at my school even then.

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I graduated in 1988. There was a smoking area for the students at my school even then.

I graduated in 1969. We had a smoking area at my school.

We couldn't walk on the lawn/grass, but we could smoke!

Specializes in Critical care.

I hate it when I have to walk past someone smoking to get into a store and it drives me even crazier when it is a store worker. I always hold my breath and walk as quickly as I can.

Perfume/cologne gets to me too. I had to take sick days at my job before nursing because of a coworker and their obnoxious and insecure need to douse themself in cologne. They had to walk past my cubicle to get to theirs and I could even tell they were there as soon as they even stepped foot in the room our cubicle was in. I'd get migraines and have to go home because of them. As a nurse I had a coworker (opposite shift) who would come in soaked in body spray. I once had a patient who was sensitive to smells assigned to this nurse and requested she be assigned another nurse, but all I got was a bunch of eye rolls from the charge nurse. The charge nurse thought the patient was ridiculous and over dramatic about all her "allergies" (I used the quotes because that was the charge nurses opinion, not mine and it wasn't up to me to say whether or not the patient really was truly allergic or sensitive to all the things she stated).

Specializes in Psych, Addictions, SOL (Student of Life).

You know I work 8 hours shifts and get two 10 minute breaks and a 30 minute lunch break. Yet my fellow nurses who smoke or vape for that matter are stepping out constantly while non-smokers cover the floor. I do Psych and our facility allows patients to smoke. Often when staff takes them out for a smoke break they light up with the patients which I find highly unprofessional.

I recently had a precept who positively reeked of cigarettes, and menthol at that. Since I work with adolescents I am not exposed to these smells on a regular basis. I was actually feeling nauseous and head achy. I did gently mention to her that I was very sensitive to cigarette smoke but she didn't seem to get it. I suggested she consider quitting as many hospitals are no longer hiring smokers. She was surprised to learn that employers' are including nicotine on UDS.

Hppy