Need reasons why becoming a nurse first, then becoming a doctor, is a bad idea

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I am currently a nursing major, sophomore year of college, and applying to the nursing program this coming Spring. I am in this field because it's mostly my family that's forcing me to become a nurse and won't support me at all (in whatever support I need) if I change my path, which makes me feel horrible. I didn't mind at first, but now I've decided that I really want to be a physician (specifically, oncologist). They tell me that if I want to be a doctor, I should take nursing first, then go become a doctor.

I told them why that's not the smartest choice at all, despite the fact that some some people go that way, but those are usually people that wanted to be nurses first but changed their mind and wanted to go to medical school. I need more reasons why this isn't smart at all. I have that it'll be a waste of time and money to go back to school because you have to do med school pre-reqs. I told my parents this and they literally don't believe me.

What are some other reasons I could tell them, to convince them, to prove them wrong?

You're not going to make it far if your heart isn't in it. You should save yourself the time and headache and go for what you want to do. It will take longer going through nursing school to become a physician, that is not how the career ladder works. Being a nurse and being a doctor is COMPLETELY different. You should be focusing on getting your bachelor's degree and applying to medical school, if that is what you truly want to do. Please don't become a nurse. You don't want to be one, it doesn't make sense to do so.

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So basically they are saying they will pay for your tuition to become a nurse, where you can then make some money and fund your own medical degree if you choose. It looks like they aren't gonna help fund med school either way. But their route you are gonna be wasting 3 years training, then 6 months to a year to find a job, then a year learning the job. At this point they say u should decide to start college over again to become a doctor? This is so lame and quite controlling.

Both becoming a nurse and a doc will be strenuous, and neither route should be taken if your heart isnt in it. Consider what is best for YOU! Because clearly your parents arent going to do so!

A few things to think about- How are your grades? To have any chance at med school you will need an impressive transcript with challenging classes and top-notch grades.

Med school is highly competitive even for the students with good grades. Sometimes I read the student doctor pre-med forums. It seems that a lot of their college years are one big resume-building exercise- the right classes, research, volunteering, extra-curricular activities(leadership position), because they know that just having the minimum requirements is not enough.

How much exposure have you had to doctors and nurses? Maybe it is time to do some interviewing and shadowing of doctors and nurses to gain some perspective on both professions.

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How old are you? Why is your family deciding your career path for you?

nolanurse88 said:
You're an adult. Make your own decisions not your parents.

I agree. If this hinges on them helping you financially then you simply have to break away and determine your own future. That means looking for scholarships and taking out school loans. And if you are still living at home, I'd move out quickly!

YOU should decide what you want to do.

Do what makes you happy! It's your career and your life! They want to cut off your financial support for school? Fill out the FASFA and get loans on our your own. Or if you're in shape and have no major medical problems contact a local medical recruiter for your state for the military and start talking about the ROTC program and the health scholarships they offer through the reserves and national guard! There are tons of ways to get college paid for to get to medical school. Nursing is not the quickest way. You will hate it if medicine is what you really want to do.

You are right you need to take a lot of pre-reqs for medical school that nursing does not require. You've not wasted much time now since you're probably just taking general courses right now, but get out of the nursing tract before you start the nursing courses and go speak with an academic advisor to get switched to pre-med major.

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Nurses practice nursing. Doctors practice medicine. Might want to pass that along to your family...they're two separate but overlapping fields.

Now, if there is absolutely NO way to avoid becoming a nurse, there are increasing numbers of schools that accept new grads into their NP programs, and from that you could go and work in oncology. (No, it's not a MD, but trust me, the hours and stress levels are MUCH better.)

And just on a side note. Be 100% sure that oncology is what you want to specialize in.

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3. Statistically nursing majors do the worst on the MCAT compared to any other major

Curious as to why that is. Different mind set to being a nurse versus a doc? Very interesting

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mmc51264 said:
Curious as to why that is. Different mind set to being a nurse versus a doc? Very interesting

Perhaps because majoring in Nursing does not tend to require the level of 'hard sciences' that a specific science field such as Molecular Biology, Biochemistry, etc would require, and that lack of education contributes to a knowledge deficit.

mmc51264 said:
Curious as to why that is. Different mind set to being a nurse versus a doc? Very interesting

I am really not sure the statistics don't show if the test takers too all of the required courses or maybe just a few. Even humanities and other non-science majors scored higher.

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Why it's a bad idea.... Simple, because you DO NOT want to be a nurse you want to be a doctor. That's it. I was forced into a similar scenario by family and I spent 7 years in engineering school ( I have a BS and MS) and I finally found a way out after all that schooling and money by simply saying no, I have to live this life for me for my dreams not for yours. I changed careers in my 30's, went back to nursing school and I couldn't be happier. So do it for you, live for you, not for anyone else.

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If they're paying for it, I'd say stick it out. Most hospitals will pay for an advanced degree (including Med School) if you're sure that you want to do that. Working as a nurse for 2 years, I have to say I do not, would NEVER want to be a doctor. They work too hard. I make enough money to be happy working 3 12's a week. I don't need or want that kind of stress in my life.

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