My boyfriend is still unvaccinated

[Horseshoe, BSN, RN]

He made a fake vaccine passport. He's dishonest. It will be something else soon. You are ignoring all of the relevant problems here that go beyond the vaccine.

Don't say you weren't warned.

[HiddencatBSN, BSN]

1 hour ago, Horseshoe said:

He made a fake vaccine passport. He's dishonest. It will be something else soon. You are ignoring all of the relevant problems here that go beyond the vaccine.

Don't say you weren't warned.

The parenting dynamic is a HUGE red flag for me too. But what do I know, it's only been the cause of massive resentment in my ending marriage LOL. Like I'm all for vaccine mandates and getting as many people vaccinated as possible but from a relationship standpoint the fact that she had to march him in to the pharmacy to get it done is bad news bears.

[Guest219794]

4 hours ago, HiddencatBSN said:

The parenting dynamic is a HUGE red flag for me too. But what do I know, it's only been the cause of massive resentment in my ending marriage LOL. Like I'm all for vaccine mandates and getting as many people vaccinated as possible but from a relationship standpoint the fact that she had to march him in to the pharmacy to get it done is bad news bears.

I am pretty sure this sad story is actually in the fiction department.

Unless somebody actually created an account here to get relationship advice on a pandemic forum.  

[Hoosier_RN, MSN]

8 hours ago, hherrn said:

I am pretty sure this sad story is actually in the fiction department.

100% agree

[T-Bird78]

He’s willing to lie and falsify documentation just to shut you up?  Yep, sounds like a winner. You will never change a guy you’re dating. If he’s showing his true colors then move on. Don’t be stupid like I was. It’s a lot easier to move on after 2 months than a year and a half (his manipulative behavior got worse the longer we were together). If he asks why, tell him you can’t trust deceitful people. 

[LPN_Computer_Guy, LPN, LVN]

A lot interesting replies on this post.  LOL 

As someone who has been married a few years , I'll say this....If you're in your early 20s and have been with a guy for 2 months, how can you say you're in love already?  ? That is something to think about.  His lies and lack of support of you by not getting vaccinated should be something to think about as well. 

If he's showing these red flags already and it's only been two months, might be time to move on.  You're young. There's plenty of guys out there that won't lie to you and not support you in things that are important like the COVID vaccine.  Take your time and don't be in rush to be in a relationship.