so, if this is the wrong one place to post, please feel free to move it...but no one has responded so far in the career section, so i'm thinking it might be the wrong one to post.
hey guys, i saw a career counsellor not too long ago and he told me that he doesn't think nursing
is the right career. i don't have anything personal against the advisor, but i honest feel a bit crushed and saddened. almost as if he shook my sense of direction. he's goal is not to insult me, and i do not feel offended...just really really sad.
the career advisor asked me about what i see in a work environment and many other questions. i answered honestly...now he feels it isn't right and i feel like i need to justify my want... i also have anxiety ...low confidence...and i suck at chemistry and math....at the same time, i feel like a suck at everything else i do anyway... i have an appointment to see another academic advisor for what i need to do to be a nursing student / get accepted and then i will be seeing the career counsellor again. because i have anxiety, my grades aren't high. and i realize nursing is highly competitive.
i am in second year of university.
he might have said nursing may not be right for me out of many reasons...it may be the emotionally demanding aspects...the work environment...the patient interaction...etc...whatever reason it is... i do believe he was talking in realistic terms... i feel like everyone keeps telling me "you can't" or "you shouldn't" and then they wonder why i have no confidence and it feeds into a cycle.
nursing is the only thing i have interest in, but i was afraid of it at first...i don't want to spend the rest of my life wondering what could have been. sure, i've heard nursing pays a lot, but i have a strong sense that nursing is not a field where i would go in it for the money. if it's anything, it's more of a bonus. i know that nursing takes a great deal of hard work once you graduate, the hard work is continous.
can someone give me any advice? i am very broken hearted. :vlin:
i can't accept my limits... because i have so many of them i might as well work in a low wage job. i want to push myself. my ambition in life may just to get married. the end.
i'm sad, because i have to work hard for everything in high school and even hard work didn't pay off. by the time i got to university, i felt so defeated and i'm giving up. to always be told you can't this and you can't that by many people...takes it's toll after 6 - 10 years.
if i try and fail... people will just be like, 'i told you so, why didn't you listen to me in the first place? "
if i don't try... i will spend the rest of my life dreaming instead of working towards it...or wondering what could have been.
is life even worth living if you can't do things you want, be like every other depressed adult who lived an unfulfilling life when it isn't necessary?