I have an almost three year old. I also have a one bedroom apartment (so she sleeps with me). Now she has had her own room before and she was on a bedtime schedule before, but ever since we sleep together things have been haywire. I would love to have her bathe and in bed by 8pm. I think that is a great time, but sometimes it seems as though I have two million things to do when I get home and we don't get to bed until 11pm (please don't flame me). If I put her in the bed before I get in there (around 9pm). She calls me constantly and asks "what am I doing, when am I getting in the bed, she wants a kiss and a hug, she forgot to say "my daddy" in her prayers, etc. The excuses are endless. I just want to know how to handle this situation. What is your routine (for those who have one)? What do you do when they just won't go to sleep? Is the TV on so that they can drift to sleep? Is there a night light? Any advice would be appreciated.