Hello I'm in my fourth year of (elementary) school nursing and want to say how much I've enjoyed this forum. I learn something every day from all of you and appreciate your input so I'd like to get your opinion on this. Yesterday, a fourth grade student came in with her hair all pulled back exposing her scalp. She complained of a scab on her head. At first glance it did look like a scab, but because she has thick dark hair, I pulled out my trusty magnifying glass. Sure enough, it was a tick - not fully embedded and not at all engorged. She became very very upset (understandably so) and was now complaining that she could feel it biting her (?). I thought that I might have a chance at removing it since it was not embedded, so I gave it a shot. The tick was clinging on for life and the girl was flinching when I tried to remove it. I really did not want to try any further and take the chance that I may not be able to remove it in its entirety. Also, the nagging liability bell was chiming in my ear. I called mom to inform her that she should take her to a doctor or urgent care to have it taken care of. Mom was not at all concerned and said she'd be there in a half hour. So the girl is literally moaning and crying the entire time she was here waiting. She would not let me move farther than an inch away from her. I tried to put her at ease as best that I could. Mom finally shows up 50 minutes later and says that they have a doctor's appointment in 2 hours. Later that day I'm relaying the story to my husband and that I felt so badly for this student because she was so upset. My husband says "you told them to go to the doctor? I've removed ticks on myself plenty of times...what would you do if it was one of our kids?" I said that is completely different, this is not my child, and if I wasn't confident that I could fully remove one from my own child I would do the same thing. I told him that we really are not even supposed to remove splinters (although I do) and he looked at me like I'm crazy. He says "but you're the nurse" Unfortunately, liability is something we have to always keep in mind. Do you think that I handled this correctly?