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I've got 14 years on you and I didn't really have trouble getting jobs until my mid-50s. And I've never been a skinny Minnie since I had my first child. I think what finished me off was my history of job losses and gaps in my employment history. Don't give up on yourself.....it's too soon to do that. (((HUGS)))
Eh. Isn't it like 75% of nurses leave the bedside by 5 years? So the hospitals tend to skew a bit younger on average because most nurses are still first careerers and they don't stay around long. I interviewed for a QI position a few months ago and was the youngest in the room by probably 15 years. I certainly didn't find it alarming. I work in a clinic now and maybe 3/4s of the nurses are over 45 and several have been nurses for longer than I have been alive. (And I am 29. And not attractive, if it makes you feel any better.)
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Alright... so my eight year old son has been in the hospital for the past three days after an episode of non responsiveness and seizure. He had never had this happen before and the docs are trying to figure out what happened.
He is in a children's hospital which is attached to a large university teaching hospital.
My son is doing well and so I've had more of a chance to observe what is going on around me. The doctors and nurses here have been wonderful and I can't complain about the care.
But my goodness... I feel OLD being here. I mean, are hospitals these days pretty much only hiring the youngest, prettiest nurses? Seriously... I have seen maybe two nurses who look like they are over 30 and most of the nurses are skinny and blonde.
Look.. yeah I'm old and heavy. And yeah at this point in my career maybe I should be settled into a place and not thinking "gee I like this place I would kinda like to work here".
I think it's just due to yes, I've watched my nursing career go down the toilet mostly and wish I could go back to being that fresh faced young nurse again.
I kinda feel bad for older new nurses who would maybe want to work in a place like this, though.