Can we say...sour grapes?

Published

Specializes in med-surg, psych, ER, school nurse-CRNP.

Dear Lord in Heaven, what a couple of days.

For those who don't know, I have a little boy who will be 12 weeks old tomorrow. I went back to work 8 weeks after he was born, and have worked a steady full-time schedule since, including overtime. My DH and I, after several nights of my not getting home until 9 and eating supper at 10, decided that I was going to quit and stay home with the baby.

I gave my notice on Wednesday, and the girl the does the scheduling promptly takes me off the schedule for everything after two weeks. Problem is, I told the office manager that I would stay until the new girl gets her license. That's about 4 weeks. We have no clue about where the 2 week thing came from, when I was shown the 'new' schedule, I assumed that that was what the scheduling girl and the managers had decided upon. They assumed that I was not going to stay until the new girl got here. HUGE misunderstanding. So, yesyerday, the owner asked if I was going to stay that long, and I agreed.

Scheduling girl had scheduled herself for all kinds of overtime, to the tune of 6 days a week, and came in bawling her eyes out today, accusing me of playing games and screwing her out of her overtime.

So, she proceeds to call anyone she can think of that will listen, crying and having her little attack of the poor pitifuls, and then proceeds to tell the owner that all I do is cry and that I don't want to work. Office manager nixed that one, she had the numbers to prove that I do in fact work my shifts, and then some. And the only time I cried was after I told them I was leaving, and that didn't last long.

Sounds like sour grapes to me, but it steams my clams too. I mean, really? I agreed to work an extra 2 weeks because one of the owners is in hospital, and not likely to get to come home any time in the foreseeable future. I don't want to cause any more trouble that I already am. But at this point, pish.

Anyone deal with anything like this, ever? Am I wrong? Anything to do, since she's still toting her rear end around on her shoulders and not speaking to me? I THOUGHT we were all adults here. Looks like I thought wrong.

Up Vote Up Vote ×
Specializes in Critical Care; Cardiac; Professional Development.

Yes, sour grapes. It sounds like she was looking forward to the extra cash and had thought it a done deal. Her temper tantrum is not your problem. Divorce yourself from it.

Up Vote Up Vote ×
Specializes in med-surg, psych, ER, school nurse-CRNP.

Thank you. I told the owner that, if it was going to cause such a rumpus, I'd just do the 2 weeks and be gone (although I'm staying PRN) and she would not hear of it.

I know she's only making herself look like a child, running and telling tales, and I hate it for her.

You're right, I need to divorce myself from it and count the days I have left.

Up Vote Up Vote ×
Specializes in Emergency.

Tell Scheduling girl to "suck it up" I am SURE during those two weeks, someone will call out and she will have the same opportunities.

Enjoy your new little one, and shame on schedule girl.

Up Vote Up Vote ×
Specializes in Trauma Surgery, Nursing Management.

Sounds like a bratty drama queen. Soooo not your problem! I just feel for the poor blokes that have to work with her in the future!

Up Vote Up Vote ×
Specializes in med-surg, psych, ER, school nurse-CRNP.

Apparently she realized how she was acting...she just apologized. Ish. Ok, now to have a make-up donut and go on with our day. You just gotta love it!

Up Vote Up Vote ×

There are people who pull this kind of stunt almost everywhere at any given time. Sometimes it is impossible not to be a victim of their selfishness. Sadly, this type usually has the ear of the boss(es).

Up Vote Up Vote ×
Dear Lord in Heaven, what a couple of days.

For those who don't know, I have a little boy who will be 12 weeks old tomorrow. I went back to work 8 weeks after he was born, and have worked a steady full-time schedule since, including overtime. My DH and I, after several nights of my not getting home until 9 and eating supper at 10, decided that I was going to quit and stay home with the baby.

can we say...CONGRATULATIONS, ANGELFIRE!!!:yeah:

i know i haven't been around that much, but i had no idea about your pregnancy and new baby!!

wow...i'm just sitting here with a huge smile on my face.

that's all i wanted to say.

as for the scheduler girl - pity the fool and move on.

life's too darned short. :hug:

leslie

Up Vote Up Vote ×
Specializes in Critical Care, ED, Cath lab, CTPAC,Trauma.
Apparently she realized how she was acting...she just apologized. Is. Ok, now to have a make-up donut and go on with our day. You just gotta love it!

Ignore her and consider the source.

th_Congratulations-Baby.gif on your little one!!!!!

Up Vote Up Vote ×

Congrats on the newest addition to the family!:cheers::w00t::hrnsmlys:

And, good riddance to the Adult Diaper Queen.:madface:

But - at least she was adult enough to step up & apologize; my experience has been that that's fairly rare (as in, I was totally shocked when a co-worker apologized to me about 3 weeks ago - caught me completely off guard.) and worthy of an extra donut in recognition. Nomnomnomnom...

----- Dave

Up Vote Up Vote ×
Specializes in (Nursing Support) Psych and rehab.

Congratulations! As for the scheduler, she was mad that she wasn't able to pull in overtime cash. She'll get over it.

Up Vote Up Vote ×
Specializes in psych, addictions, hospice, education.

A wise person once told me, "never let someone else's illness become yours"

Up Vote Up Vote ×
+ Join the Discussion