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So let me set the scene for you. Baby momma #1 gets admitted in the early AM for labor gets admitted into LDR #5. Later that afternoon baby momma#2 walks into triage as a labor check. Baby daddy walks out of the LDR #5 (proudly mind you)to tend to Baby momma#2. She gets admitted. Baby daddy asks our nurse manager if they can put baby mamma #2 into a neighboring room. Nurse manager goes
. The unit is too busy and we cannont accomodate his request. As baby mamma#2 walks down the hall she wants to stop by and say hi to baby mamma#1. Baby daddy goes back and forth until baby mamma#1 delivers around 4pm. Then 6hrs later baby mamma#2 delivers.
And oh yeah these aren't his first kids and he was overheard bragging that there is another pregnant girl out there carrying yet another one of his baby's.
I've seen this on several occasions.This kind of thing makes me so sad for young women today that any segment of society would think this is acceptable. We have certainly failed in teaching them self respect.
Besides, in all my years I've never met a man who had anything good enough that I'd be willing to settle for only a partial share of it!
Ew! I hope everyone of his babies mommas takes him to court for child support.I just don't get how people can be so irresponsible. I understand people make mistakes, but don't you think you'd learn the first time? Or at least the second time?
Why should people be responsible when the welfare system bails them out with $, foodstamps, rent $, utilility $? You get the picture.
Lindarn, RN, BSN, CCRN
Spokane, Washington
I can't help but feel that a lot of these women are so uneducated about their options and are so desparate for some kind of family unit they take whatever they feel they can get. The men seem to prey on this too. I don't think it's subconscious either.
I hope every man out there that does this to a woman and his child some day wakes up ALONE and SAD because he let the greatest thing in his life slip through his fingers and I hope it eats him up.
And I hope every woman who falls for these guys someday wakes up and kicks his butt or whatever junker they're with at the moment (because when one is done with her she'll find another one just like him).
If there are any somewhat positives in this story - here is what I see:
Baby momma#1 and Baby momma #2 are civil with eachother.
The father is at least for now taking responsibility for his children even though he is not in a commited relationship with the mothers. There are so many fathers who take no responsibility at all for their many children.
not a good situation and the "father" needs to settle down and be more respectful to the families he already has.
L&DRN03
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Oh yes I forgot to mention on of them was positive for HSV.