I'm not asking for any medical advice. I just can't hold this all in to myself. Im having a breakdown at work and can't stop crying. I've been dealing with depression and anxiety that seems to be getting worse. I've been hanging on by a thread, and now feel like I can't hang on anymore...except that I feel like I have no other choice. I can't take off work. I work private duty on a case that the family are not trained to care for the pt. They refuse to. Even though they are on the 485 as trained caregivers probably so the company can get away with accepting the case. There are only 2 of us day nurses trained for him. I can't financially afford the repercussions of taking time off.
I've already been just pushing through this and don't know what to do bc i feel like i can't push anymore. I'm not having any si. I just feel like i can't face the world...at least work anyway. I hate hate hate this case so very very much. Been here 1.5 years, but anxiety paralyzes me and keeps me from being able to do another case. I am screaming in my head for my pt to shut up, hearing his nasty secretions in his mouth bc refuses robinul. but I promise THIS IS NOT ME!!!! This is not who I am! I am caring. I am kind. I am helpful. I'm not an *** who is bothered by patients, but i am cringing inside and hating to my core being here, but this is not who I am. I'd be horrified hearing another nurse say that about their patient. I am frozen with anxiety as to finding a different case. I feel completely hopeless.