I have a great boss. We worked together in a correctional facility, and when he came across my resume in his current position, ADON, he gave me a call. Now, I am working in a behavioral health clinic. Great autonomy, benefits, etc...
Only problem is, he and I get together for lunch about once a week. As well, he will call me at will throughout the day just to shoot the breeze. We are both males, so it is kind of like a "Good ole boy" relationship. My immediate super, my facility lead nurse is becoming more and more irritated at this cozy friendship. She cut into me yesterday about it.
She stated, "You know, he (my boss) shouldn't be asking you and only you out to lunch like this. It smacks of favoritism, and the other nurses won't like it!"
My lead nurse made me really uncomfortable. If she had a problem with HIS actions, I don't know why she wouldn't address him and not come at me. I really like my job and don't want to make waves. I also don't want to alienate my ADON. Any constructive criticism would be really appreciated :heartbeat...
Thank you in advance any helpful suggestions...
Kindly,
Mark