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- by SaraMC Jan 19Does anyone have this problem? Okay here's my thing: I don't have a problem being busy with school and studying. I work 40+ hours a week and attend school full time in order to complete all the pre Reqs prior to September to make it in time for the nursing program at my CC. I DO NoT have spare time. The 2 hours I have after school/before work I'm studying. The 3 hours I have when I get off at 12(before I have to go to bed an a semi-rational hour), I'm studying.
My husband is very supportive but I feel I'm being selfish at times. Am I?
My best friend who lives with us never see me. i can tell it annoys her that i study so much and sacrifice spending time with her to study and she told me "I feel like we almost don't have anything in common anymore" and I feel like she's going to think I don't care.
It really sucks on my part to have to think going to school for nursing may cost me my most wonderful best friend or at least the closeness of our relationship.
How do you guys find time to spend with the people you love? I just went to dinner with her and her new boyfriend tonight and the whole time I was thinking I could be studying. I want to spend time with her and my husband so badly but this is only two years of my life that I have to put EVERY physical, mental, and emotional effort into this and I am determined to make it one time around.
Am I going too hard? It really is difficult for me with my job. I'm thinking of quitting before I get accepted into the program so I can make sure I get all A's. I want this more than anything.
Super sorry for this long, dramatic post lol. Advice? Rants? :-)
- Jan 19 by x_factorIf you can afford not to work, or work only part-time, then that would definitely be much easier on you. I absolutely know how it feels to work full-time and go to school full-time for pre-reqs, I did it last semester. I worked night shift full-time, and then drove straight to school in the morning, stayed half the day at school, came home and slept, woke up and studied a bit, and then went back to work. Only other time I had for studying was on the weekends, which took away from time I had to spend with my boyfriend and other friends. And it sucked, more so in regards to my friends than my boyfriend, because he was also in school full-time, so he understood what it meant to have to study and put academics first. Friends got tired of hearing "sorry, I can't make it tonight, I have homework". Only two of my friends, one already in nursing school and the other already a nurse, truly understood it and even encouraged me to NOT spend the weekends "hanging out" with them, but rather sit at home and make sure my work was done.
This semester I'm taking an even larger full-time load (21 credit hours/6 classes) to finish off the last of my pre-reqs and co-reqs, and I'm applying for my program this semester for fall admission. So for that reason, I quit my job completely to focus on making sure I get the grades I need to make it into my program. It's difficult trying to juggle life, job, school, family and everything else all at once. But keep your head up and know this is only temporary. You are making a sacrifice now in order to give yourself a brighter future and that is HUGE. Never lose sight of why you started this journey, and know with hard work and determination, it will pay off in the end.
- Jan 20 by zoe92I agree, cut back on work if you can. It sucks to not socialize, but it will be a lot harder in nursing school. Like umbdude said, it'll just be a couple years of your life.
- Jan 20 by SaraMCI am planning on quitting my job once I get into the program but gosh I want to quit now! Lol and yes, they will survive not seeing me all the time. 2 years of sacrifice or in two years wishing I had made the sacrifice 2 year ago. Thanks for the encouragement :-)
- Jan 20 by Boxer MamaI have only been taking a few courses at a time, but my notecards go with my everywhere - even on date night with my husband where I pulled them out to study while waiting for a movie to start. I have just accepted that this is what my life is going to be like until I finish school. I work from home, but I also have three kids that really are a full-time job getting all their stuff done! I will be totally worth it!
- Jan 20 by DivaLaJuicyIf your friends and family really loved you, they would understand that you have to make so many sacrafices to better yourself. My bf and I went through the same thing him not understanding that I can rarely see him because I have to study for 2 exams every week. My friends for the most part are very understanding. I dont work at all, my time is devoted to my children and school no life for now. Good luck and hope everything works out in your favor
- Jan 20 by StephalumpI'd like to say it gets better. But it doesn't. Nursing school will be far more time consuming than prereqs.
It may not get better, but it does get easier. People adjust and get into a groove. They see your stress and exhaustion and "get" that you really mean it when you say you don't have time.
This too shall pass.
- Jan 20 by SaraMCYes, in two years it will absolutely be worth it. I'm not looking for it to be easier on myself, just easier on them. Hopefully it will be.
And I do the same thing with my note cards lol. And I constantly have earbuds in listening to lectures. People must think that girl really likes listening to her music. Ha!
- Jan 21 by man-nurse2bI worked fulltime while doing my prereqs, however I did my prereqs parttime so it took a lot longer to get into nursing school and I sorta regret wasting time. I'm married and got kids. I did take 1 year off from prereq when my wife got pregnat with our second little a couple yrs ago. I just started nursing school 3 weeks ago and trust me you wont be able to work, at least not in the 1st semester. I say it is what it is and your friends and husband need to be supportive. I wont quit just yet until you have a solid acceptance in your hand. Truth is when you enter nursing school its only going to get worse. If they can't support you now well expect the same reaction with you go to nursing school.