Positive Thinking Is Useless By Itself
by TheCommuter 6,702 Views | 37 Comments Senior Moderator
In nursing and other aspects of life, positive thinking is doomed to fail unless the person takes appropriate actions to ensure a positive outcome. The purpose of this article is to discuss the drawbacks associated with positive thinking.
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According to San (2006), positive thinking can be described as the practice of embracing the affirmative in our thoughts, our feelings, our actions, our reactions and our speech. Positive thinkers are usually brimming with optimism and tend to look at the 'bright side.'
However, positive thinking is absolutely worthless without action. People who are blindly optimistic often get themselves into trouble because they either refuse to see danger ahead or they simply donít do anything about it because they simply trust that everything will turn out OK (Bouchard, 2010). For example, a nursing student who has just been placed on probation for the rest of the semester due to attendance problems says to himself, "Everything will be fine!" However, he still has problems with chronic tardiness and misses clinical at least once monthly. Although this guy is thinking positively, he has not taken any concrete actions to solve the attendance issues. When the director of the nursing program forces him to withdraw at the end of the probationary period, he'll be the type of person who tells anyone with a sympathetic ear that he was a great student and that the director unfairly got rid of him.
You can sit there and hope, pray, project, imagine, fantasize, visualize, make up great affirmations and just about any other kind of positive thinking idea you can imagine, and not much will change - at least not without actually getting involved, without taking some form of action towards what you want more of in your life (Bishop, 2009). For instance, the pre-nursing student says that she was born to be a nurse and thinks to herself, "I cannot imagine doing anything else with my life. I will be a nurse!" Even though she is thinking positive thoughts, she has performed poorly in the majority of the prerequisite courses, has a 1.9 grade point average, and is not taking action to repeat the classes or address her academic weak spots. When she is rejected by several nursing programs, she will likely tell people that the process of getting accepted into nursing school was not fair.
In a nutshell, positive thinking is not enough to make things happen. Rather, taking positive action makes things happen. You can read a great cake recipe, but until you actually buy the ingredients, follow the recipe, and wait while the cake changes from batter to cake in the heat of the oven, not much will take place (Bishop, 2009). Don't get me wrong - positive thinking is a good thing, and an optimistic outlook on life is certainly more uplifting than a negative viewpoint. In fact, positive thinking can be the precursor to positive action. However, positive thoughts are not enough to make our goals come to fruition. To turn our dreams into realities, we need to be honest with ourselves, completely realistic, and put in the hard work to get the things we want out of life.Last edit by Joe V on Jul 25, '12
TheCommuter is a moderator of allnurses.com and has varied workplace experiences upon which to draw for her articles. She was an LPN/LVN for four years prior to earning RN licensure.
TheCommuter joined Feb '05 - from 'Fort Worth, Texas, USA'. Age: 33 TheCommuter has '8' year(s) of experience and specializes in 'acute rehab, long term care, and psych'. Posts: 27,724 Likes: 40,037; Learn more about TheCommuter by visiting their allnursesPage Website0Jul 25, '12 by SHGRInteresting article! The process of self-evaluation is indeed a difficult one. It requires making an honest assessment of one's own weaknesses, and I have found that it changed my self-identity. I did two semesters of graduate work this past academic year and, as you stated in the article, learned my weak spots and made a plan to address them.
I have to say, implementing the strategies I identified has been the best part. I've grown a lot and learned strategies that are helping in other areas, as well.0Jul 25, '12 by OKNurse2beI have to say I agree with you. I am a person that tends to "look at the bright side," but I am also a realist in the sense of that I know that to get anywhere one must put in the effort as well. I will provide an example. Yesterday I had my last lab exam for A&P2, which is the fetal pig. I had not been able to study effectively due to extenuating circumstance. I have excellent grades in the class up until now. Therefore I told myself that I would be okay even if I did not do as well as I would otherwise. However, that did not stop me from doing the very best I could even though I knew that I technically could get by with a lesser grade and still get an A overall. As it turned out, I got a 94 on the exam because I took my time and did my best. Optimism is great, but one must put forth the effort as well. In college and in life one reaps the benefits of what one sows... so to speak.0Jul 25, '12 by 33762FLAgreed. The "power of positive thinking" is complete bunk unless you combine it with a LOT of hard work. I saw many nursing students fail because all they thought they needed to do was pray (essentially the same thing as positive thinking, it's just "wishing") or think positive to pass exams and clinical.7Jul 25, '12 by Tragically HipQuote from cherryames1949It may be a factor, but with the very American "Power of Positive Thinking" obsession, and the recent "The Secret" ("law of attraction") foolishness, itself recycled a few times in the past hundred years, many people really do think that all they have to do is think positive thoughts, and everything will come to them. It's a variation on the sense of entitlement theme.Not complete bunk. Many brilliant people and ideas have languished and died because of negative thinking! Positive thinking isn't the only ingredient in success but it is certainly a factor.
The insidious aspect of that mindset is that, when tragedy befalls a person, the "Secret" folks blame it on the person for simply not thinking good thoughts.
If your children are hungry, you'd better do more than think positive thoughts.Last edit by Tragically Hip on Jul 25, '123Jul 25, '12 by Hygiene Queen GuideI had a former classmate who, when things got rough for me, told me, "Think positive! Failure is not an option!"
Well, yes, it helps to think positive, but in my case, failure was an option and I had to focus on how correct it.
So we need to think positive, but we also need to be realistic and anticipate the negatives and what our plan of action is going to be.6Jul 25, '12 by Ruby VeeQuote from tragically hipwe cancer patients are constantly told to "think positive thoughts" and to "pray for your recovery." that's not bad advice, but the corollary is that cancer patients who don't do well are told that it's because they didn't pray hard enough. or think positively enough.it may be a factor, but with the very american "power of positive thinking" obsession, and the recent "the secret" ("law of attraction") foolishness, itself recycled a few times in the past hundred years, many people really do think that all they have to do is think positive thoughts, and everything will come to them. it's a variation on the sense of entitlement theme.
the insidious aspect of that mindset is that, when tragedy befalls a person, the "secret" folks blame it on the person for simply not thinking good thoughts.
if your children are hungry, you'd better do more than think positive thoughts.
believe me, i think positively as much as i can but it's difficult to accomplish late at night when you can't sleep and you're in significant pain.
think positively, but keep your doctor's appointments, and take that ativan when you need it.
0Jul 25, '12 by Tragically HipQuote from BrandonLPNI wonder who came up with that saying. It's not in the bible. In fact, the bible counsels the opposite, something to the effect, "Ask and ye shall receive."This can be applied to those who put their faith in religion, without actually taking any action. I'm reminded of the saying "God helps those who help themselves"
Edit: The saying was attributed to Benjamin Franklin (as Poor Richard, I presume), but it did not originate with him.Last edit by Tragically Hip on Jul 25, '12 : Reason: Obligatory Benjamin Frankin reference added