Maybe I am overreacting....or maybe I would be the same way if my family member was hospitalized...
I work in a busy ICU. Today my patient was s/p MVA, suffering from ARDS, multiple fractures. During visitation, the pt's brother in law, who is a nurse, came in and stripped the pt down in front of all the other family members. He had his own stethoscope, pen light, and did a full head-to-toe assessment. He then proceeded to take off all of the pt's dressings and look at what was under there.
I'm suprised he didn't attempt to look at the pt's chart. When I saw him doing this, I was speechless. I didn't know what to say to him. He comes in the room, asks different nurses the same questions to "test our knowledge"...which is what I heard his say under his breath to the other visitor.
Am I just over reacting...or should I have just let him do what he wanted to do??