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My mother does not like going to the doctor so to get her there is a big ordeal. She had had a bunch of little things that should have been seen by a doctor but she puts it off. When she started getting numbness in her left hand I made her go to the doctor. Well actually she visits a NP. I usually prefer the NP because they seem to have more time and really listen to you. I encourage my mother to write her problems on a little note card before we go so she will not forget anything. When we got there my mom started on her list and after 2 issues the NP stopped her and said " your appointment is only 10 minutes long so we need to wrap this up" THIS SHOCKED ME! It has been a few days and I am still upset... really upset. My mother did not get to finish telling her what her medical problems were and she is now double reluctant to go to a doctor because now she doesnt even want to go to the NP anymore. Im just upset and frustrated but what I am really looking for is for some ideas on how to deal with this. I really want to send the NP a letter or somthing but would not know what to say. I love my mom a lot and just want her to take care of herself and this NP really SUCKS. Any ideas on what I should say in the letter or what I should do? Thanks for any help.