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Hello everyone! I was trying to give my friend some insight on reasons not to leave school nursing for her first bedside nursing job. She is not a part of this wonderful community so I will have to show her your responses.
She says she loves school nursing (4 yrs), but says this is an opportunity too good to pass up. I told her consider her age (44 yrs, not old just being realistic) and how hard bedside nursing is on the body, plus it is a night shift.
What are your thoughts???
Thank you in advance!!
I don't know; I'm leaving school nursing at the end of this year. It's been a fun two years and there are a lot of great perks that I'm going to miss (e.g. not working on weekends or holidays--this was my first job that I got this, being with my children during the school day, summer/spring/winter breaks, cheap benefits, etc.). I'm going to miss the kids like crazy! I've grown a lot as a nurse and I wouldn't trade that for anything.
But, as a pretty new nurse (three years in June), I feel like I didn't give the bedside enough of a chance. I worked full time noc shifts at the hospital during my first year, as well as went to school full time for my BSN (along with a pretty extensive community health practicum that led me to this school nurse gig in the first place!)...and kids...and life. In addition to the "new grad blues," I think the amount of stress I was putting on myself with outside things really didn't allow me time to learn as much as I could have and enjoy the experience. I think I have so much to learn that I can't learn in the school and it would make me a stronger nurse all around.
I do work at the hospital twice a month to make more money, but considering that I make half my school nurse wage in two days, it just doesn't make logical sense to continue--those weeks I work at the hospital are lonnnnng. I just don't want to continue to have to basically lose two weekends a month to supplement my income. It's definitely not all about money, but it is a factor.
So there are probably a lot of reasons your friend is considering changing career paths, and I think that's okay. She might find out she hates it and might want to run back to school nursing. I might find out the same. But the beauty of our career is there are so many paths we can follow.
it's more of a mandatory age thing and years on the job thing... i think i'll have 30 years in by then
I thought it through a little more after I posted that. I was thinking that my dad retired after 20 years of teaching, but hadn't factored in that he didn't start teaching until he was 40.
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