Believe it or not, this isn't another debate over: Is nursing a calling or a job?
We all have our own reasons for entering nursing as our career of choice. Some feel a biblical calling that makes them feel they can change the lives of others in a positive way. Good for you, I'd love for you to take care of my parents if they were ill. Some see it as the job that fits them best because nursing offers different schedules (nights or days, weekends etc....) and it works well for them. Good for you, if your home life is in order, it will show in your work, glad to have a positive attitude on board. Others might be attracted to the daily changes and challenges nursing offers. Great, love someone not afraid to step up to the plate, if I have a massive MI I bet you'd do wonders to help save me. The list I'm making here could go on for infinity........three times.
Whatever your reason for becoming a nurse, you have to care on some level. That goes without saying. Nursing offers a lot, but not enough to attract the "business minded folk". I believe we are all where we are meant to be at this point in time. Whatever our "calling" is or wherever it comes from, I'm glad you're here.
What to do though when our "calling", the motivation that brings us into nursing, goes unsatisfied or.........saturated with satisfaction?
I got into nursing because I was brought up believing one should always strive to be of the utmost asset to their community as they can. I feel good healthcare and a good experience with a nurse during troubled times does this. I give the best of me I have to offer my patients and go home feeling "I've done my part, I am living not just existing."
Now, a little over five years after my first day as a nurse and much the wiser, I wonder about that. Finding the healthcare field so polluted with "business minded folk" and so many other energies pulling against me while I try to deliver good nursing care has been a big disappointment for me. I have, to a degree, lost my confidence that "good healthcare" can be delivered in today's medical model. The reasons for this are numerous and varied but, believe me in this.......they are not imagined nor just a reflection of me having a couple bad days at work.
So, here I am, with my "calling" going unsatisfied. I don't feel like a "valuable community member" most days and I certainly don't feel I am able to serve my fellow man/woman in my role as a nurse these days. I often feel as though I am a marionette with the strings being pulled by people who could care less about the patient and I am being forced to perform a dance that is nothing like what I got into nursing for. It is very difficult for me to convince myself to go to work some days, I often say to myself "Eh, why bother, another day of me running around trying to just keep people safe all the while people's needs go unmet and ignored. And, in the end, of course, it'll be my fault because we all know hospitals are staffed and equipped so well (tongue in cheek).
My "calling" has pretty much vanished and gone away. Yes, I am guilty of being one who goes in just for the paycheck and doesn't believe I make much of a difference anymore. Too many years of playing "donkey carrot" hoping to find a situation where I could help and not finding it have put me in a mood where I just do work because I have to work.
So what keeps you going when you are down and out about the quality of care being given these days?
Me: Well, I like that I can do things with my parents and enjoy their company while they are still healthy. Before I was a nurse, I couldn't pay for anything myself and didn't own a car, so including me in family gatherings was a bit of a pain. Not so anymore.
I also have my kittens, Calvin and Hobbes, to help my mood. I often have to look at them to find reasoning not to call off. If I don't take care of them, no one else will and they are two perfect little angels. No reason they should suffer just cause I can't figure this stuff out.
Yes, my reasons for continuing to be a nurse are kinda skimpy and self serving, but its what gets me to work anyway. I'm going for my BSN and then my MSN in Informatics, because I think I can accomplish something in that area. Then I'll have a whole new, refreshed "calling" to keep me going. Till then, guess it'll have to be what I got for now.