Should I ever come across a female patient who would prefer a female nurse insert her foley catheter, I will comply with a smile on my face and ask the nicest female nurse on my floor to assist this woman. Should a Muslim male prefer no male nurses (or doctors) be in the room while his wife gives birth, I'll make sure his wishes are respected and carried out and will personally round up the males and escort them to another more tolerant soon to be father.
But should I come across a woman who grew up in the pre civil rights era who does not want to be treated by a Mexican American male nurse, how do I respond?