What money can get you.

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:uhoh3: I'm appalled to say i came from a school that allowed this, but i want to hear what you guys think.

So we had this girl that graduated last year, she came from a very very wealthy family. we shall call her "Jane Doe" I mean...very wealthy, beyond the point where you cringe. And she is super showy about it. Daddy bought her everything. her New mercedes for passing pediatrics, a class in which she struggled.

She is constantly dressed up in like Gucci stuff, only does her shopping in New York City, which they fly too every couple months so she can shop with daddy's credit card.

Ok, she reminds me of paris hilton. No joke! So to imagine this girl, think of Paris Hilton in Nursing school and you have this girl. :lol2:

Ok, now you picture this girl. She is was in her psychiatric rotation at our local mental health facility. There was a girl that Jane Doe went to high school with that was in the psych unit for attempted suicide. Jane Doe and this other girl, the patient HATED each other in high school. I belive they've gotten in a few fights, constantly fighting blah blah blah (high school stuff). Anyway...so Jane Doe actually access her medical record and got all this information about her. Such has her hx of depression, suicide attempts, drug use etc. So Jane Doe gets home after her clinical day and tells her ROOMMATE, who isnt even in nursing, who she saw. She told her Roommate everything she read on the medical record.

So Jane Doe starts emailing anonymously this poor girl things like "If you were smart enough you would have jumped off that bridge" ....really really horrible stuff.

So anyway, make a long story short because there was more said and done, this patient complained to the hospital that someone had to have shared information because she is getting all these emails and its information only the hospital knows (medications, history etc.). So while the hospital is doing their investigation, she is still writing all these nasty emails to this poor girl. Her Roommate knew all about it (but not being in nursing knew nothing about HIPPA). So her roommate goes to one of our psychiatric nursing instructor and asked to speak with her privately. The roommate told her everything, just stating that she doesn't know if Jane Doe is doing something wrong or if there are any regulations against this but her roommate felt something was very very wrong about the situation.

So all actions that should have taken place, did take place. She was suspended from clinicals until it was reviewed, hospital was notified, the head hanchos got involved...everything. But now here is the catch----- her dad donated $100,000 to the school. and little miss prissy pants got off with NOTHING. No punishment, not kicked out of the school, nothing but a slap on the hand.

What do you guys think of this?? It disgusts me to even look at her. Needless to say, she got a job after daddy donated money to the hospital she got hired at (Sound fishy??)

Specializes in cardiology/oncology/MICU.

Drama Drama Drama! I had a psycho exgirlfriend that worked L&D at the hospital where I did the L&D/ MB clinical rotation. She was friends with the instructor. She talked all kinds of smack. I purposely would go to clinical like 15 minutes late to miss here as she got off of night shift. One of her patients one night just so happened to have had a husband with a job at the VA where I work. She actually pulled up her myspace page(ages ago obviously) and showed this laboring first time mother pictures of me and talked all kinds of smack to them too! It was crazy to me when he told me this the next day when I came in to clinical. I swear the drama is one thing that there is not a shortage of in nursing. I almost lost my mind that semester. It was already akward enough being a guy on the L&D floor in a nursing uniform. How about going into a newly delivered mother's room at 0630 while the dad is sleeping on the little couch in the corner and asking, "pardon me maam but may I palpate your fundus?" No thanks I think I will stick to ICU:up:

Specializes in Peds/outpatient FP,derm,allergy/private duty.
I wondered the same thing...

Anne, RNC

A little too "TMZ"-ish . . .:uhoh21: but -- I may be overcompensating for having believed the "balloon boy" parents until the bitter end. :bluecry1:

I worked with an intern who was the son of the big donors - he was an arrogant jerk but not unethical or dangerous.

Daddy won't be able to save her when she is criminally prosecuted for HIPAA violations once she is a licensed nurse.

Don't be too sure about that.

Money talks in the legal system too.

This story is sad but may be true. As the song goes.....money, money changes everything!

Specializes in Med Surg.
Daddy won't be able to save her when she is criminally prosecuted for HIPAA violations once she is a licensed nurse.

Sure about that, are you? That would really depend on how just how rich Daddy is. It also would depend on how much political clout he has. A friendly congressman or senator could throw a wrench into an investigation real quick. As for Daddy's lawyers, someone mentioned them not being able to help her when HIPAA comes calling. Wanna bet? A good legal team would simply tie up the whole thing in paperwork, motions, and countercharges until it goes away or a deal is reached. If it did go to trial how many of the "witnesses" would want to testify knowing that the lawyers were just itching to pick them to shreds? Would a mentally fragile complaintant want to go through this?

Far fetched? If everything is as the OP has said, Daddy spent a 100K just to keep his Princess in school. How far do you think he would go and how much do you think he would spend to keep her out of jail?

OKKKKKKKKKKKKK...........agree with the fact that money should not have bought off such a faux pas and the student should have been more severely reprimanded. However, do not agree with the attitude that is coming through in many of the responses.....it's an attitude of class envy. Please try to separate your emotions (e.g. the class envy) from the logical, pragmatic response (e.g. the student should have been more severely reprimanded). I bring this point up because I see it all too often in nurses. It's part of the reason for the saying "nurses eat their young." You're really not doing nursing any favors as a "profession" with the catty behavior. Let's all act like the professionals we are Supposed to be. (BTW, this kind of attitude is rarely seen in most male-dominated professions....and guess what? Most male-dominated professions are more respected and better paid....and this type of thing is part of the reason why. Food for thought ladies....)

Specializes in Med/Surg, Academics.
Says more about the people who defer to this, than the people who take this advantage and go with it.

Exactly.

I'm more disturbed by a system that rewards this kind of behavior than I am with the daddy and the student. The daddy and the student LEARNED that it works out with money because the system allows it.

Specializes in Infectious Disease, Neuro, Research.

http://www.hhs.gov/ocr/privacy/hipaa/complaints/index.html For reporting Ms. Mehoff.

http://nlnac.org/home.htm For reporting the school Ms. Mehoff attends.(I believe there is at least one other accrediting body, but IIRC, this is the most common one)

After the first two, I would call the hospital's Compliance Officer(unless Daddy Mehoff is on the Board of Directors). If Dad has or may have pull with the hospital, skip to JCAHO.

http://www.jointcommission.org/ For really getting the school Ms. Mehoff attends.

(I'm assuming she's related to the well known Jack Mehoff, who is generally involved in the activities described.)

I would call NLNAC and JACHO, giving names and dates. It's a whooole lota harder to cover is "someone" may talk to the press...

OKKKKKKKKKKKKK...........agree with the fact that money should not have bought off such a faux pas and the student should have been more severely reprimanded.

Sorry, this is a criminal offense, not peeing in someone's open convertible. The conduct is unprofessional, and is decidedly narcissistic-borderline-sociopathic. It is not "alright", "kinda-sorta-bad", to email goading/inciting notes to someone with a hx of suicidal ideation/attempts or depression. This individual has no place in the field.

Specializes in OB-Gyn/Primary Care/Ambulatory Leadership.
Daddy won't be able to save her when she is criminally prosecuted for HIPAA violations once she is a licensed nurse.

You don't think nursing boards have ever been bought? Enough money can buy you anything. Look at some of the young Kennedy clan and all the shenanigans they've squeaked out of .

Specializes in OB-Gyn/Primary Care/Ambulatory Leadership.
Jack Mehoff

Is this a joke? (say the name quickly, out loud)

Specializes in Infectious Disease, Neuro, Research.

Yes. Not trying to offend anyone, but I thought it was approprite, given where I first heard it:

new ED doc is paged in, and takes the closest parking spot- which happened to be the Hospital Director's designated slot. Trauma goes to surgery about the same time the Director is coming in, rather perturbed.

"Who took my space! Blahblahblah!"

Doc apologetically comes up, saying he'll move his car. Directors says, "Who are you?"

Doc sticks out his hand, totally straightfaced, "Dr. Mehoff, Jack Mehoff." Walks out the door.:clown: Two extremely arrogant gentlemen.

Specializes in Peds/outpatient FP,derm,allergy/private duty.
OKKKKKKKKKKKKK...........agree with the fact that money should not have bought off such a faux pas and the student should have been more severely reprimanded. However, do not agree with the attitude that is coming through in many of the responses.....it's an attitude of class envy. Please try to separate your emotions (e.g. the class envy) from the logical, pragmatic response (e.g. the student should have been more severely reprimanded). I bring this point up because I see it all too often in nurses. It's part of the reason for the saying "nurses eat their young." You're really not doing nursing any favors as a "profession" with the catty behavior. Let's all act like the professionals we are Supposed to be. (BTW, this kind of attitude is rarely seen in most male-dominated professions....and guess what? Most male-dominated professions are more respected and better paid....and this type of thing is part of the reason why. Food for thought ladies....)

The whole thread started out with an unusually gossipy tone and (not that it matters to me anyway) had four guys participate in it. Oh well. The wonderful thing about allnurses is that we are pretty laissez-faire here within the broad parameters the moderators look for and do not obligate members to certify they've read anything they find repugnant in order to participate here! :up:

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