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How many of work.to the point of exaustion, see such pain and sadness in our workplace (its not all perfect) and think we are dealing with it quite well? At what point do we stop and reflect . That we look at us.without feeling the caregiver guilt. This is not saying we don't love our jobs but are we loving it to the point of our own wellbeing ?
Today I went to the funeral of someone who took their own life. I hate that people come to a point where that is the only option that seems available. I hope I am able to express to those I love that they can always reach out for help and I hope I could recognize the need for help in myself if I ever came to that point.
While I enjoy certain aspects of my work, my own health and wellness takes priority. If I am not well, I cannot effectively care for others. I know when enough is enough.
I'm also careful about the friends I keep. A few good, close friends are important. The energy suckers, users, drama queens....they have no place in my personal life. Dealing with those personalities at work all I can handle.
Long ago, I realized there is nothing positive to be gained by being a people pleaser.
traumaRUs, MSN, APRN
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Please be nice to each other - thanks.